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eattwinkiesseejesus

eattwinkiesseejesus

Praying for death to a God that doesn't answer
Jan 18, 2025
100
H.E is getting worse, I'm at peace with dying- not my issue. My problems lie with my spouse (what else is new?🙄), he refuses to talk to me about end of life and getting things set in order. I understand, death isn't exactly a happy topic but I have things I need to have squared away and I need his help and support to get them done. ... of course if he was the type to give a fuck or actually care I wouldn't be here anyway ...

I called the doc to set up an appointment to discuss getting a dnr set in place,soonest appointment they had is a month out - so we'll see how well that works out..

What else should I be doing? My brain isn't really here these days, please advise 🥲
 
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Worndown

Worndown

Illuminated
Mar 21, 2019
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What country?
There are other ways to get a DNR.
Google it.
 
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quietwoods

quietwoods

Easypeazylemonsqueezy
May 21, 2025
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As a note, a DNR is not going to stop emergency medical personnel from reviving you after an attempt at CTB. I personally wouldn't waste much effort getting one if that's your concern.

A DNR is only really useful if you're already in a care setting or expect to be in one.
 
eattwinkiesseejesus

eattwinkiesseejesus

Praying for death to a God that doesn't answer
Jan 18, 2025
100
As a note, a DNR is not going to stop emergency medical personnel from reviving you after an attempt at CTB. I personally wouldn't waste much effort getting one if that's your concern.

A DNR is only really useful if you're already in a care setting or expect to be in one.
The dnr is in case of coma or other health issues related to current health decline
 
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