How to ctb and vanish forever?

[Canon1]

Hey! I got sn and I don't want to ctb in my apartment because it could take weeks till I get found. I am also thinking of my parents that would have to deal with the fact that my corpse is in my apartment. I wished I could take sn and simply vanish without getting found.

You have any ideas?

 

[motel rooms]

Take SN in the woods

 

[motel rooms]

Doesn't that deprive parents of one final meeting with their kid - albeit its kid's body?
and if they are religious they want to do the final rites ritual thing for their kid.

I'm just answering @Canon1 's question

 

[Deleted member 8579]

Here is my dream method:

-Travel to the ocean.
-Buy a little wooden rowing boat, an axe, ropes and heavy weights.
-Wait for a good moment to row into the open ocean and row as far out as you can.
-Let yourself drift until you are in the middle of the ocean with no land or ships in sight.
-Throw the paddles overboard.
-Tie the weights to your body in such a fashion that they become difficult to remove.
-Sink the boat with the axe.

This method is foolproof for the following reason: Rowing out into the open ocean and throwing the paddles away guarantees
that even if you now change your mind, you will die. You will either die of dehydration or proceed as planned. Furthermore, no
one will be able to interrupt your drowning. By destroying the boat and tying the weights to your body, the likelihood of your
drowning being successful are tremendously increased.

As a bonus, this method leaves no traces of your body.

The only downsides are the pain of drowning in salt water and the somewhat elaborate preparation required.
I'm sure the method can be modified.

 

[Sprite_Geist]

Doesn't that deprive parents of one final meeting with their kid - albeit its kid's body?
and if they are religious they want to do the final rites ritual thing for their kid.

The individual who wishes to die may not want to have their bodies involved in a final meeting. Usually when someone wants to vanish before a suicide, it is because they do not want others knowing that they are deceased in the first place.

 

[motel rooms]

Here is my dream method:

Why is that your dream method? You don't want anyone to find you?

 

[Deleted member 8579]

Why is that your dream method? You don't want anyone to find you?

Yes.

 

[motel rooms]

Yes.

You want your end to be elegant & mysterious

 

[All Things Must Pass]

Everyone who knows you will die eventually and you will be forgotten forever.

 

[ExistentialEntropy]

Your concern for what happens regarding your remains and your parents will disappear when you lose consciousness for the final time.

 

[Rob1984]

Here is my dream method:

-Travel to the ocean.
-Buy a little wooden rowing boat, an axe, ropes and heavy weights.
-Wait for a good moment to row into the open ocean and row as far out as you can.
-Let yourself drift until you are in the middle of the ocean with no land or ships in sight.
-Throw the paddles overboard.
-Tie the weights to your body in such a fashion that they become difficult to remove.
-Sink the boat with the axe.

This method is foolproof for the following reason: Rowing out into the open ocean and throwing the paddles away guarantees
that even if you now change your mind, you will die. You will either die of dehydration or proceed as planned. Furthermore, no
one will be able to interrupt your drowning. By destroying the boat and tying the weights to your body, the likelihood of your
drowning being successful are tremendously increased.

As a bonus, this method leaves no traces of your body.

The only downsides are the pain of drowning in salt water and the somewhat elaborate preparation required.
I'm sure the method can be modified.

To me, that sounds absolutely terrifying. Especially if it was done at night. Do you have a spiritual connection with the ocean in general, or is this your method simply because nobody will find you and there is no turning back once you axe the boat?

 

[motel rooms]

Everyone who knows you will die eventually and you will be forgotten forever.

Your concern for what happens regarding your remains and your parents will disappear when you lose consciousness for the final time.

So what? Plenty of people don't want their relatives to find their dead body & they're entitled to their reasons

 

[Deleted member 8579]

You want your end to be elegant & mysterious

The gif master strikes again, although my reasons are more of a practical nature, as elucidated below.

To me, that sounds absolutely terrifying. Especially if it was done at night. Do you have a spiritual connection with the ocean in general, or is this your method simply because nobody will find you and there is no turning back once you axe the boat?

To most people, the most important things to consider with regards to suicide are:
- Effectiveness
- Pain
- Difficulty (this includes expenditure)
- The state of the body

The first point is obvious and needs no further explanation.
The only reason why pain should be an issue is due to it endangering the proceedings, i.e. leading to an abortion of the attempt, which might leave one with permanent damage. In case of a foolproof method, pain is a little price to pay for death.
Since effectiveness is of utmost importance, something as trivial as the difficulty of the method should not be an obstacle. It is better by far to choose a method which requires high effort and is guaranteed to be successful instead of one which might be easier to achieve, but leaves a risk of failure.
The last point is important to me for several reasons:
- A death which might leave other people traumatised is out of the question. Therefore any method which leaves the body in a bad condition is unacceptable. Likewise, my parents/relatives having to identify my body might be traumatising.
- I dislike the idea of having an autopsy made. I am well aware that I will be dead, but I disapprove of it nevertheless.
- Burials/cremations are expensive; I don't want anyone to pay a fortune for the disposal of my body.

 

[FuneralCry]

Personally I would do in a nature spot that is isolated to minimise the risk of being found I guess. It is ideally what I would like to do. I would not want anyone to find me.

 

[ExistentialEntropy]

So what? Plenty of people don't want their relatives to find their dead body & they're entitled to their reasons

Never said they weren't. Just pointing out the impermanence of such wishes. Make of it what you will.

 

[motel rooms]

Never said they weren't. Just pointing out the impermanence of such wishes. Make of it what you will.

Well, everything & everybody is impermanent/transient... Should I blow my brains out in a park & traumatize some kid who sees me just because I won't give a shit about it when I'm dead & because that kid will eventually die too?

 

[ExistentialEntropy]

Well, everything & everybody is impermanent/transient... Should I blow my brains out in a park & traumatize some kid who sees me just because I won't give a shit about it when I'm dead & because that kid will eventually die too?

That's your ultimate call to make. Your choice.