How scape from go to church without sound depressed or atheist?

[aliceliddel]

My grandma is super religious and she almost drag me to church. I hate that Place because she told to everyone im crazy, depressed and dangerous(i hate when she act like a vitim) and now she think i want suicide(and i want) but i try "be happy" close of her. Ive used all ideas to avoid the church and people trying talk about how life is good and things will be better, looking to me as a shit. Soo please give me ideas about what to say to her to be leaved in peace. I already try a loooooooot of things. Im out of ideas.

 

[Severen]

Just tell her you worship Satan.

 

[Alchemist]

Nothing wrong with sounding like an atheist. There's no shame in being smart.

 

[Pupuce]

She looks like the type of person you can't "win" against, so i don't think you can manage to have peace without much trouble.
What have you tried already? and what how your relationship with her, how much do you see eachother? It could help to get a bbter grasp of the situation.

But personnaly i think being hard on her would be the only solution.

 

[brbr]

Vc nao pode simplesmente afirmar que possui outras crenças para além do cristianismo? Ou isso seria ruim? Eu te entendo, igrejas sao ambientes horriveis

 

[stormrOzzy]

Do you like philosophy? Because I could show her that you follow other things that are not part of religious belief and that helps you a lot, it's not satanic, it's philosophical and scientific, the more you show that you follow and understand it, peace. (worked with me and my parents)

 

[aliceliddel]

Vc nao pode simplesmente afirmar que possui outras crenças para além do cristianismo? Ou isso seria ruim? Eu te entendo, igrejas sao ambientes horriveis

Ela me obriga a ir. O que é horrível são as pessoas cochichando sobre mim. Odeio esse lugar. Odeio essa cidade minúscula de gente fofoqueira e intrometida. Queria só estar morta.

 

[brbr]

Ela me obriga a ir. O que é horrível são as pessoas cochichando sobre mim. Odeio esse lugar. Odeio essa cidade minúscula de gente fofoqueira e intrometida. Queria só estar morta.

Putz, que merda :/
Você já considerou comprar briga com esse pessoal? Vc ja sofre demais, nao deveria sofrer pela babaquice alheia. Bater de frente com esses crentes pode ser libertador, talvez lhe faça bem. Seu bem estar tem sempre que vir antes da mediocridade alheia :)
Só espero que nao sejam evangelicos, eles sao os piores, intolerantes e agressivos, é de dar nojo

 

[aliceliddel]

Putz, que merda :/
Você já considerou comprar briga com esse pessoal? Vc ja sofre demais, nao deveria sofrer pela babaquice alheia. Bater de frente com esses crentes pode ser libertador, talvez lhe faça bem. Seu bem estar tem sempre que vir antes da mediocridade alheia :)
Só espero que nao sejam evangelicos, eles sao os piores, intolerantes e agressivos, é de dar nojo

Não, são católicos por sorte. Eu disse a ela que não me sentia confortável lá e que preferia rezar em casa. Agora tem uma santa qqr no meu quarto kkkkklkk eu finjo que rezo pra santa, mas na real eu não acredito em porra nenhuma.

 

[Asta]

Você pode dizer a ela, "Eu não vou e que tudo o que há para isso. Você não pode me fazer!

 

[Severen]

Nothing wrong with sounding like an atheist. There's no shame in being smart.

In some parts of the world, not being an idiot will result in this though.



And in the bible belt, a lot of them have shotguns or rifles.

 

[TAW122]

Like others have said, if you can't win in this situation, then the best you can do is the minimize the damage that you cause. I would just come out and say that you aren't interested and simply just refrain from going. I have left churches before in the past for various reasons and I'm an atheist myself. The only reasons I ever go to church is just to keep some connection so I am able to access a piano and play the piano (since I don't own a piano, electronic or acoustic), and also since I know a few people who have helped me IRL so I wanted to keep the connection with them.

 

[mattwitt]

Tell her your confused and need time and space to figure things out.