how do you want to be perceived after death?

[taps67]

Not at all, just like in life.

 

[Somewhat Suicidal]

As someone who genuinely suffered and found a way out. Also for the good times I had for brief period of my life.
But I know that's not how normies perceive suicide. They are after all completely clueless with their perfect happy little lives and all their fake problems. So they will twist the story to fit their emotional needs and that's that.

Thankfully I wont care about anyone perceives anything then. I do now, that's part of the problem.

 

[a4001]

Hopefully as a loser. Someone who's best case scenario was death, who throughout their entire life brought nothing to this world and finally realized that and in a final act wanted to not burden others anymore by leaving this earth.

 

[bakenohana]

don't want to be percieved at all, I just want them to incinerate me, throw me away somewhere and then forget about me

 

[sleepyneko]

i am going to be dead, that's all that matters. if people do end up remembering me, i hope that at the very least my mother doesn't think about me. as for everyone else, they can do whatever they want.

 

[NorthernSunset]

No one will remember, because no one knows the good I do. So I will just return to nature and hope others forget.

 

[CareLessMeaningLess]

I would rather people not remember me at all. But if they do they should remember me not as a selfish coward but as someone who tried.

 

[violetforever]

i can only imagine peoples remembrance of me being as degrading as my life is so i wish it wouldnt happen at all. ive hated being perceieved in all of the time ive spent alive so i feel the same way in death.

 

[RazzleDazzle]

I understand that nobody in my life will understand. Some people will be harsh and judgemental, some will be hurt and sad, nobody will get it. I'm pretty isolated anyway and my family mostly doesn't care.

 

[90377lethe]

I want to be forgiven & then forgotten as quickly as possible

 

[SummerTrip]

I want to be perceived as someone who loved so hard, they weren't able to live without their loved one. Simple as that.
Sadly, knowing the people that'll be handling my cremation and burial, I'll be disgraced and perceived as a sinner, someone that was coerced by a demon or some stupid shit like that. Fuck them…

 

[cyan_cat]

I would prefer if everybody forgot about me as soon as possible, i know that some people still love me and that's the only thing why i still didn't ctb even though i haven't wanted to live for a while. So i would just want them to move on and forget so i wouldn't have to feel like such a bad person

 

[PeaceSeeker83]

As someone who genuinely suffered and found a way out. Also for the good times I had for brief period of my life.
But I know that's not how normies perceive suicide. They are after all completely clueless with their perfect happy little lives and all their fake problems. So they will twist the story to fit their emotional needs and that's that.

Thankfully I wont care about anyone perceives anything then. I do now, that's part of the problem.

I love the term "normies". I use it a lot too. they live in their own little world mixing with other normies in their fake lives. They like to put their positive spin on everything; they might say my death is "tragic" even though it will not be. They will say "he was so young" even though at 43 I feel like I have been around 50 years. The abundance of normies is another reason to leave.

 

[termination2434]

I'm conflicted. Part of me wants to know that a select few people really cared. But mainly I think I would rather not be perceived at all once I'm gone

 

[limenlux]

On a serious note, I don't want to be remembered at all.

On a lighter note, I remember once telling my best friend at the time to eulogize me at my funeral by making up a series of absurd, heinous stories and allegations about me, then end with "and that's why I'm glad he's dead".