how do u cope being ugly

[IwishIwasAttractive]

i have no friends
24 and still kissless hugless virgin

i cope with video games. but i dont enjoy

 

[selfhater]

same (◞‸◟)
i love video games too but i don't cope with being ugly

 

[Fragile]

by being so intoxicated on any substance to the point that I can't recognize myself in the mirror. nothing else will ever work for me, there are things that I can't change and my appearance is one of them.

 

[gymletethnicel]

Video games as well, I have just been playing Halo Master Chief Collection yesterday. I'm a 20 year old KHHV and I just know that it is over for me already. I was born and my life was over, I can't change anything.

 

[Diocel]

i try to not think about it

 

[serah]

I just stopped wishing that I would find someone who liked me/found me attractive. After the realization I'll be forever alone and never nothing more than a friend, it made it easier to cope with.

 

[FireFox]

I am 23 . I am virgin too and never had a relationship. I am female . What is your gender. Tell.us about yourself.

I hate society everything is so centred on looks and appearance. It is natural you feel this society

Men are excepted to have a six pack and have an aplaha male attitude

Women are excepted too look like instragram models with blow up fish lips, huge boobs etc.
Tv adverts showing producuts on various beauty does not help either.

Video games are cool. My mum got my sister a ps4 last christmas and i play on it.

Meet people who like the things you like so wont feel as lonely

Remember there people who suffer disfigurement and there lots of people who dont meet society standards of beauty that have go on to have happy and fulfiling lives. They too find love.

In england i watch i show called the undateables which is about people with disablities looking for love .
It is wonderful show. You can watch some series on netflix
An man on the show had a disfigurement and managed to find love.

Katie piper was a a beautiful model. Her ex boyfriend organised an acid attack on her
She is now married with child, does lots of charity work for people with disfigurment

I dont really know . Family and members of the public(sometimes) say i am pretty. I dont think i am . If i was attractive i would have a parnter. I hate looking in the mirror. I hate having my picuture taken and avoid photos. I see a very ugly person in the mirror

It is literally a fight to have my picture taken i refuse.

I am a more fuck society person and i do want i want.

Take care
I hope you meet someone
Love FireFox

 

[Deleted member 17949]

I don't cope very well hence why I'm here tbh. Though generally I just try to accept it and move on. Yeah relationships are out of reach, but I guess that's something I'll just have to deal with.

 

[Myforevercharlie]

Why the... Fuck do you all think you're ugly? Are you really? Or did you listen to the wrong people? Or have 3 noses or something?

Not every one looks like that one cute singer, or that beautiful actress. So what? I really believe everyone has his /hers own beauty. And what I think is attractive, makes my best friend shiver.

Please look at yourself as being you, if people really think that's not good enough... Fuck them!!

 

[nerve]

I remember this really specific moment where I was running to catch a bus (actual bus, not suicide bus) a few years ago and I thought like "good thing I have the physical capacity to make my body run or else my problem would be a lot more complicated."

That "appreciate your body for what it can do not how it looks :^)" mentality always went over my head because people would say stuff like "I love my weird gross stomach because I grew my kids in there!!" or "I love my legs for carrying me through this life!!" or other flowery shit that doesn't actually make a difference in day-to-day living.

It's a pretty low bar and it doesn't take away any of the pain of being trapped in this disgusting flesh cage, but thank God I can at least like feed and clothe and wash myself unassisted. I don't need to ask someone for help when I have to use a toilet and I don't need to call and check places about wheelchair accessibility and my physical body, while looking pretty terrible, is functioning as intended.

i know the idea of gratitude gets twisted up and grates on people, but I'm not sure I'd even call this gratitude. More just appreciating that these problems and challenges are absent from my life.

 

[Deleted member 17949]

Why the... Fuck do you all think you're ugly? Are you really? Or did you listen to the wrong people? Or have 3 noses or something?

Not every one looks like that one cute singer, or that beautiful actress. So what? I really believe everyone has his /hers own beauty. And what I think is attractive, makes my best friend shiver.

Please look at yourself as being you, if people really think that's not good enough... Fuck them!!

People have called me ugly, even friends that I trust fully admit that my looks aren't great

 

[IwishIwasAttractive]

I really believe everyone has his /hers own beauty.

nope u can't be beautiful with a recessed tiny chin. some ppl gets surgery but it costs money. and not every result will look like this.

 

[4eyebiped]

nope u can't be beautiful with a recessed tiny chin. some ppl gets surgery but it costs money. and not every result will look like this.

To be honest, I like both the women in those pictures. I am sure I am not the only one. Yes, there will be some who like one or the other and there may be a higher percentage one way, but that does not make either one inherently ugly, unlovable or unacceptable.

I think often people assume what others want because they are mislead by toxic social media or a plastic surgery industry that relies on your insecurities. They are also mislead by a personality they look up to that is insecure with one of their traits and now everyone thinks that trait is bad. There is not a global wrong trait.

Sometimes a bigger nose looks better on a certain person and a tiny looks worse on another, some people like little titties and others want hot air balloons, some people like coffee table asses and others smaller ones and sometimes people like you because of you. When you change one thing about yourself, and it goes well, you open the door to the people who like that new trait but close the door to the people who liked your old trait.

Don't get me wrong there are some people who truly benefit from plastic surgery to correct issues from birth defects and traumatic accidents, as examples, but I so often see beautiful people go into plastic surgery and come out disfigured more than the opposite.

 

[Deleted member 17949]

Totally over for me, my chin is weak and my eye area is poor. Beauty exists on the inside and outside. Nobody will ever love me like this.

 

[terry_a_davis]

I've posted this quite a few times now but assuming you're not ill and have some willpower working out can get you an attractive body. it absolutely does help things when it comes to attracting someone. think of a person of the opposite sex or whoever you like with an average or below average face but with a seriously hot body.

 

[favourite]

I'm just slowly coming to terms that I won't ever be in healthy, loving relationship. No real cope here, maybe besides skincare (to pretend I care about myself) and codeine as a reward for getting through another week

 

[GoBack]

I'm just slowly coming to terms that I won't ever be in healthy, loving relationship. No real cope here, maybe besides skincare (to pretend I care about myself) and codeine as a reward for getting through another week

Codiene is my best friend

 

[deadgirlahsatan]

It's difficult to handle. I can never afford plastic surgery. I try not to think about it. I have worse things going on in my life like poor health.
My bf thinks i am not ugly so that helps a little but not a lot.

 

[Journeytoletgo]

Nothing helps but alcohol however even that is getting old, I guess I'll try another substance to help me make it until next summer

 

[Myforevercharlie]

I'm just slowly coming to terms that I won't ever be in healthy, loving relationship. No real cope here, maybe besides skincare (to pretend I care about myself) and codeine as a reward for getting through another week

Why won't you be?

 

[favourite]

Why won't you be?

I'm not attractive and have no redeeming qualities

 

[Myforevercharlie]

I'm not attractive and have no redeeming qualities

But attractive is different to anyone..what I think is attractive my best friend think is hideous. There could really be someone or someones who think you are attractive...

 

[favourite]

But attractive is different to anyone..what I think is attractive my best friend think is hideous. There could really be someone or someones who think you are attractive...

There are people universally perceived as unattractive. Sorry, but that's the truth.
I'm working on that, but I've been dealt a bad hand in that matter.

 

[SadErection]

Depends how bad it is but start mewing right now and you will have good bone structure by like 30 years old or get surgery. I am 20 and in the same boat mewing now and seeing some progress but very slight. We live a brutal existence

But attractive is different to anyone..what I think is attractive my best friend think is hideous. There could really be someone or someones who think you are attractive...

If you said that to my face I would probably punch you ngl

 

[Jumper Geo]

Don't go by your looks many people find there partners through different qualities you must have seen a really beautiful girl or boy with a less attractive person I wouldn't worry as long as your sexy, Sexy Song

Cheers

Geo

 

[SadErection]

Don't go by your looks many people find there partners through different qualities you must have seen a really beautiful girl or boy with a less attractive person I wouldn't worry as long as your sexy, Sexy Song

Cheers

Geo

Sadly this isn't true and love isn't real. You are coping if you say this. People choose friends, partners, employees, bosses based off of looks and height. If I weren't ugly my life would be substantially different. I see how people treat me differently and when I mean people I mean EVERYONE my close family even. They treat my brother better.

 

[Jumper Geo]

I worked with a man 20 years ago he was skinny, geeky looking with glasses but he was so funny all the women loved him and he had a good looking girl friend. Sometimes it's about confidence and personality.

Beautiful celebrities with ugly significant others - Photos

Sexy celebrities with unattractive partners.

www.washingtontimes.com

Cheers

Geo

 

[Myforevercharlie]

But attractive is different to anyone..what I think is attractive my best friend think is hideous. There could really be someone or someones who think you are attractive..

Depends how bad it is but start mewing right now and you will have good bone structure by like 30 years old or get surgery. I am 20 and in the same boat mewing now and seeing some progress but very slight. We live a brutal existence

If you said that to my face I would probably punch you ngl

Maybe people don't like you because you're not to friendly
I can voice my opinion.

 

[notuntilperfection]

Depends how bad it is but start mewing right now and you will have good bone structure by like 30 years old or get surgery. I am 20 and in the same boat mewing now and seeing some progress but very slight. We live a brutal existence

If you said that to my face I would probably punch you ngl

sorry to burst your bubble but mewing wont do anything past the age of like 12/13 or maybe even younger. Mouth breathing is the problem. Specifically mouth breathing during early development

 

[SadErection]

sorry to burst your bubble but mewing wont do anything past the age of like 12/13 or maybe even younger. Mouth breathing is the problem. Specifically mouth breathing during early development

Not true depends on bome age mine is young