How do I get it into my mind that all my desires and worries will cease upon death?

[TreizKhushranata]

Since I'm still alive, my wants and fears torment me, and the thought of ctb doesn't comfort me but makes me feel worse since my desires will definitely not come true in that case. I doubt they will though even if I stay alive.

 

[StateOfMind]

Try to create your own code of honor. If the quality of your life does not live up to the expectations of your code then you know its time to die.
Try to create your own mantra. Repeat and condition yourself. eg "Death = Liberty" etc

 

[TreizKhushranata]

One would be "If I can't have the life I envisioned for myself but can only have a life that pales in comparison, then life is a torment and not worth living."

I still feel hesitant though. Stupid desires wreck everything

 

[ghostspace]

You're just returning to the nothingness that you were before you were born. It didn't hurt before, it won't hurt now.

 

[virginiawoolf86]

You're just returning to the nothingness that you were before you were born. It didn't hurt before, it won't hurt now.

That's an extremely comforting thought.

I really hope that's the case.

 

[MariV]

i dont think fulfilling desires gives happiness. its all in the brain in my opinion