Have anyone else notice the scary amount of transgender users suicide forums get?

[walsun]

being transgender sucks so bad, there's nothing I can do Abt it either. :((

 

[dandayooo]

yeah there are so many trans people in here who seem cool, sucks that i decided to take the repressor path

 

[meowpuppy]

there are no cis people in the foxhole, i suppose..

i'd rather talk to trans people to cis people, though, so i find it pretty good.

 

[yxmux]

worst shit ever. i semi-pass (biggest problems are my voice and body structure). still live as a guy though. feels like im too exhausted/drained to really make more of an effort which kinda goes into more of the issues i have other than gender dysphoria (schizoid + overall depressed).

i usually don't interact with the various political dramas surrounding trans people given that they are basically attack vectors for trans people without any positive outcome if one were to engage. attempting to manipulate you into overcompensating for them draining your energy by talking back while in a stressed, overwhelmed, disintegrated state, all by being an exceptionally intrusive, pesky piece of shit. it's incredibly corny and attention-seeking, and it feels insulting that apparently i ought to be subject to forced dick-sucking someone who only knows infecting other people with their incompetence. there's nothing that pisses me off more, especially when they try to be more slick about it. anyways sorry for the rant

 

[SweetChariot]

Yeah it's something i noticed when i first came around and starting to roam around pages trying to read some old discussions
I'm cis myself (a bit BI maybe?) but it's still very disheartening to see

 

[Blurry_Buildings]

yeah there are so many trans people in here who seem cool, sucks that i decided to take the repressor path

Ahaha me as well. We all become an ash or dirt pile at the end, some just a little sooner than later :)

 

[nails]

there's just no point. everyone either hates us or just sees us as delusional or mentally ill. i have to rep because im a neverpasser, but ofc, repping will also just lead to ctb in the end. dysphoria will always be there and i will always look like this, so i need to ctb. i dont want to rep, but the alternative is also awful. even if i, for some reason, decide to transition, im still cooked. again, everyone hates us or fails to be understanding. plus, my social, romantic, and professional life will be more cooked than it already is if i decide to poon out. being trans ruins everything, especially if you don't pass (which a lot of us won't tbh). hell, even if none of this bothered me too much, i still wouldn't want to be trans. i can't cope with only being an artificial male. at the end of the day, i'm still female. still have F on all my documents, still female in the memories of everyone who has met me, will never experience a male childhood, still have female biology, etc. and that shit won't change. i can dress up all i want and inject myself with hormones, none of that changes. most can only change the surface-level stuff, and a lot of the time, that can't even be changed that much.
only the lucky trans people (youngshits/passoids, people who already had a decent life, people with accepting environments, have a lot of money, etc) can live happily. everyone else seems to be doomed to misery.
maybe it'd be better if other aspects of my life didn't suck. i often think that i'd start transitioning if i had a positive environment. i actually was taking some small steps when i still had friends and was in uni. but i'm already alone and constantly in survival mode and i can't add more problems onto that, i can't even cope with my current problems. i think a lot of other reppers (or just pre-transition people) can agree.

dysphoria is a curse. there's no way out for a lot of us. it really hurts, i obviously don't like seeing so many other trans people suffering. i wish i had the strength to keep resisting the world and being my authentic self or whatever, and i wish i could tell others to do the same, but it's just not worth it. none of us did anything wrong, everything just sucks and i wish things could be different for us. i wish you could all find peace, this shit is just so unfair.

 

[nothingbutafailure]

I'm trans but I pass extremely easily. Life isn't better.

For one, afab women think I'm afab. Plus, I prefer afab women. Trans women just don't activate that sense of sameness, or same sex attraction.

Why it's not better.

Instead of just repelling a person of interest, I attract them -> They discover what I really am -> Their needs can't be met -> They leave

Passing in my experience means watching the lights in someone's eyes die a little when they realize the only hole below my torso you can fist is where my shit leaves my body. And I think most lesbians would rather lick the gums of a dog than fuck around with a post-op trans woman.

Now, it could be I have a shit attitude, but on top of everything else I've also experienced obsessional stalking and fetishization. That means even if a woman is genuinely interested in me, they might only be interested on the basis I fit into a narrow category trans woman, one that fetishizes the trans condition in some way. I just can't fucking do that. It's not natural to me and not how I want to live.

The last time I thought things were actually going decently with a trans woman they were just the fucking cat's paw of some other stalker or stalker group. Now I feel like I can't even trust a trans woman, or I judge them the same way as every other transphobe.

But it could be worse. I could be a fucking femcel, but I'm not. I've had sex with more women than I can count. I don't count because it doesn't feel nice. I don't feel like I can reach a state where loving me is okay. Either something's wrong with my body, or something's wrong with my life, I keep people at a distance because I don't have a great job yet and don't want that to be a weight on our connection.

Oh yeah and the state of politics is horrible. It's a rotten time to be alive.

 

[nothingbutafailure]

This is what people who chase male-to-female trans people find funny by the way:

[YTP] Dennis Prager On The Importance Of Femboys

Ruining my life is fun. Chasing femboys is fun. Making me uncomfortable is fun.

Having the dating pool poisoned by these fuckers isn't fun. That's why I'm sharing this.

 

[that_miqo'te]

It's just unfair and there id nothing we can do.
Best option is to fully tramsition and hide your gender from almost everyone although that requires a rly high level of transitioning but its the only way for ppl to not annoy u

Can't hide it from myself unfortunately

 

[AgathaChristieLover]

While it is the fact that a lot of trans people have suicidal thoughts, but it's also that a lot of trans people use the internet, I think it's because they find comfort in the internet when they can't in real life

 

[Vera1997]

Its hard to not be suicidal when the vast majority worldwide hates us. Those who do not straight up hate us still don't understand us either.

And to top it off, even if the entire world was accepting of me, I would still prefer killing myself because my own brain cannot make peace with my body.

 

[name2come]

Well i know that transgender people are about 10 times more likely to experience any type of suicide tought but it still seems so weird to find so many transgender users.
Anyone else finds this unsettling?

You act "confused" about why trans people might be on a suicide forum and then you proceed to express your hatred for trans people, even going so far as to say we'd be better off dead.

YOU are why there are so many trans people struggling with suicidal ideation. You personally. You're clearly indebted to making life worse for some people. Sadly, you are not alone. Just don't act so fucking surprised about the impact.

 

[Die.A.Ria]

Its so sad trans people get the hate they get in my opinion i feel like they are nicer than non trans people and i love them so much

 

[Passenger4224]

You act "confused" about why trans people might be on a suicide forum and then you proceed to express your hatred for trans people, even going so far as to say we'd be better off dead.

YOU are why there are so many trans people struggling with suicidal ideation. You personally. You're clearly indebted to making life worse for some people. Sadly, you are not alone. Just don't act so fucking surprised about the impact.

Why are you so defensive and accusatory? OP has said nothing on this post that is hateful about trans people, is there context I am missing?

 

[violetforever]

yeah i noticed this )':

 

[KilledByUSG]

could it be the other way around

transgender is symptom of depression

 

[UserFromNowhere]

You act "confused" about why trans people might be on a suicide forum and then you proceed to express your hatred for trans people, even going so far as to say we'd be better off dead.

YOU are why there are so many trans people struggling with suicidal ideation. You personally. You're clearly indebted to making life worse for some people. Sadly, you are not alone. Just don't act so fucking surprised about the impact.

OP is not hating on trans people or expressing hatred for trans people at all. Not once have they said trans people would be "better off dead." OP themself is trans and struggling with dysphoria. As per the rules, please don't attack or insult other people.

could it be the other way around

transgender is symptom of depression

This is definitely not the case and borders on the line of being transphobic. There are plenty of trans people who are not depressed or who have experiences with depression and nevertheless are still trans.

 

[interna]

i wish i wasnt

 

[HNR_]

I noticed too and it feels so disheartening to read about how much pain trans folks have to endure because of the state of this fucked up world...

I'm a bi guy who's in a pretty big queer discord server that happens to have a lot of trans folks and, honestly, a vast majority of trans folks I talk to on that server are some of the sweetest people I ever met, which angers me even more that a huge chunk of the world painted a target on their back and/or uses them as a scapegoat

I know this message's pointless in the grand scheme of things but know that even cis folks like me would like to punch politicians and other bigots in the face (and much more but I doubt I'd be allowed to elaborate...), knowing how much you have been are still are going through