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Has anyone ever fall in love with another member on SS?
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Is there anyone who efver fall in love naturally with another member on SS? I'm jiust asking out of pure curiosity and because i'm drunk asf and because I want to hear love stories.
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chloramine, Muerte negra, Pen>Sword and 4 others
There most likely has been at least one instance of it happening, whether they were able to live a happy life afterwards or just ended up ctb together is another story. We need a sanctioned suicide version of Entertainment Tonight so we can keep up to date with all the juicy suicidal showmances.
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whatevs, Celerity, TerminalConscience and 18 others
I've fell in love with the messages that some members have wrote on this site, but never with the members themselves
I think I remember from reading through a few threads that @Dr Iron Arc has found love here before. You could talk to him if you're more interested I guess. Sorry for the tag & for exposing you, if you see this dr iron arc.
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chloramine, Celerity, Disappointered and 3 others
Is there anyone who efver fall in love naturally with another member on SS? I'm jiust asking out of pure curiosity and because i'm drunk asf and because I want to hear love stories.
I am hesitant to make even friends with someone here. I am pro choice because I believe in a person's ownership over their own body, there are circumstances that make life not worth living and that we should all get to judge if it's not worth it for ourselves. But it sounds too painful to love a suicidal person and I couldn't let myself get close to someone who is suicidal enough to end up posting here. That's kind of a crappy catch 22 because for some people their suicidality comes from lack of friends or romance.
I think some people have had longterm relationships here, I read some posts about it.
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chloramine, lostautist, som1 and 6 others
Nah, part of my unhappiness stems from my many toxic and unhealthy relationships with women IRL so I am perfectly happy to take a back seat with any type of online connection.
That's not to say I don't still have to fight off the SS girls with a virtual stick. Everyone loves an overweight duck.
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Mr2005, Girl-shaped Wound, All-Dead-Y and 9 others
Nah, part of my unhappiness stems from my many toxic and unhealthy relationships with women IRL so I am perfectly happy to take a back seat with any type of online connection.
That's not to say I don't still have to fight off the SS girls with a virtual stick. Everyone loves an overweight duck.
I feel guilty talking about it on here because I know that love and loneliness is a very sensitive subject for a lot of people on here and I don't want to make anyone feel bad or give the impression that I'm "rubbing it in" or anything like that, so I'll put the rest of my answer under a spoiler... but my now-husband and I met on SS.
I never believed in soulmates until I met him; the connection between us was instant and uncanny and nothing like either of us had ever experienced. We understood each other perfectly, bonding over our respective traumas, our longstanding mental and physical health problems and our desperate attempts to treat them, our lengthy experiences with the ruthless healthcare and social systems, dismissive doctors and the people in our personal lives who just couldn't seek to wrap their heads around the fact that there were no easy solutions to our problems, and our common desire to leave all of this behind and be at peace. Despite the endless cycle of turmoil in our individual lives, the genuine care, support and affection that we had for each other was the only constant, and before long we fell madly in love with each other. We knew that our time in this world was limited, but we also knew that what we had was special and that we needed to be together, and for the next few months after meeting each other we put absolutely everything we had left in us into preparing for my arrival (as we lived on opposite sides of the world). The actual journey to get to him was hell due to my physical illnesses, the incessant noise, the cramped airplane seating, the multiple plane transfers, the (very strong) turbulence and the fact that I couldn't sleep the whole flight, and by the time I arrived in his country I was so exhausted and in so much pain that I felt like I was dreaming, but the second I first saw him actually standing right in front of me and felt his arms around me, it just completely solidified for me that no matter where we are, whenever I'm with him, I'm at home. We've been married for over 2.5 years now and he's the best "thing" that's ever happened to me.
Of course, there's a LOT more to the story; we went through absolute hell with the system (and we were even forced to be separated for some time because of it) and we ultimately sacrificed ourselves in order to be together, but as far as we're concerned, there was no other alternative. Life has been nothing short of sheer torture for the both of us – we're perfectly compatible together but not with our own bodies and definitely not with the world, and unfortunately love does not fix or change that and it would be unrealistic and naive to expect it to – but the love that we have for each other is immeasurable, indescribable and unbreakable, and we're in this together until we can finally get the hell off this planet and leave side-by-side.
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Mr2005, Girl-shaped Wound, ExhaustedExistence and 24 others
I've fell in love with the messages that some members have wrote on this site, but never with the members themselves
I think I remember from reading through a few threads that @Dr Iron Arc has found love here before. You could talk to him if you're more interested I guess. Sorry for the tag & for exposing you, if you see this dr iron arc.
It's alright lol, obviously it didn't work out between me and the one I loved and the actual thread I initially made seems to be gone for some reason. Oh well.
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Disappointered, BitterlyAlive_, MeltedJello and 1 other person
I remember all that. Not trying to defend her even though I was friends with her and I did kinda find it odd but why did she post so much and constantly in Stan's goodbye thread? Why go through all that if she didn't care to some degree? Maybe she did care about him but he didn't care about her in an intimate way. Idk I just find it hard she did all that for attention or some other reason. Like she posted freaking constantly way more than necessary.
I've fell in love with the messages that some members have wrote on this site, but never with the members themselves
I think I remember from reading through a few threads that @Dr Iron Arc has found love here before. You could talk to him if you're more interested I guess. Sorry for the tag & for exposing you, if you see this dr iron arc.
That is absolutely charming and demonstrates great depth of emotion and empathy. (Which is probably why you're here; sorry about that. :/ ) Ignorance really is bliss. No, really.
I'm a tad weary of meeting with mentally ill people ever since I gave my friend's girlfriend a ride and she tried to crash the car I was driving because I accidentally said something triggering.
It's a miracle I managed to control the vehicle and avoid us having a rather nasty high-speed accident. I'm still working through that memory somewhat, so don't need more traumatic experiences.
Kinda hard to fall in love with someone I've never met.
I admire some Users on here for the strength and compassion I've seen them display, so that's something. But dunno about "love".
I've already been maimed by a psychopath for no reason, which is one of the reasons I'm on this site. Am not in a hurry to repeat that experience.
I think so...? Uuuuh... It's weird, we did not fall in love or anything through this forum, but I found out after her suicide that she frequented this place.
I really hope people don't use this thread as a way of instilling hope for an SS love affair..there are people who treat this place like a dating site, and it's not appropriate or safe. Get's messy.
But to answer your question personally, No, certainly not, my only love is for my impending CTB.. and the tragic memes.
Sorry to disappoint.
Why do I remember people referring to Jean as "he", was there another Jean?
I also don't remember anything like what you mention (perhaps before my time), and idk how I feel about it being said regardless, as this person is no longer here to defend themselves.
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