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Bad Karma

Bad Karma

Marika the Eternal
May 13, 2025
133
in case no one's told you, you're doing an incredible job. even when the weight of it all feels crushing, even when getting out of bed is the biggest victory of the day, you keep showing up for your kids. and that matters more than you know.

your love, your presence, and the strength it takes to keep going through the bad days are making a difference. you may not always see it but your kids do.

to every dad carrying battles no one else can see, you are seen, you are valued, and you are appreciated. the fact that you're still here, still trying, still loving your children through all of it is something to be proud of.

wishing everyone some peace, pride, and hope today. you deserve it. <3
 
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CarbonBased

CarbonBased

The Nothing
Jun 18, 2026
215
Thanks for a reminder. That's a good opportunity for many of us to talk to our dads
 
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judestfrancis

judestfrancis

Life rearranges itself to compensate for your loss
Dec 21, 2023
70
My brothers dad would have been 43 this year. He CTB 12 years ago in december, and I hope that he has found some sort of peace. Remember Dads, youre loved. Youre strong for trying to stay and talking about it, even privately. Youre wanted, and your children will hold a place for you no matter what.
 
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FoxSauce

FoxSauce

Emotionally unstable like an IKEA table
Aug 23, 2024
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My dad is in the states. I fear he'll die before I spend time with him.We have a complicated relationship but he doesnt know that..Hes also sick not terminally but slowed em down a bit.

Im scared I might lose him, idk if I can handle that big off a loss.
 
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judestfrancis

judestfrancis

Life rearranges itself to compensate for your loss
Dec 21, 2023
70
My dad is in the states. I fear he'll die before I spend time with him.We have a complicated relationship but he doesnt know that..Hes also sick not terminally but slowed em down a bit.

Im scared I might lose him, idk if I can handle that big off a loss.
losing parents, especially ones you have complex feelings towards, is a strange kind of grief. It gets easier as the years go on, but that doesn't mean theyre not still missed
 
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BradGuy123

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Jul 6, 2025
447
My father is in heaven and I really missed him today
 
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Bad Karma

Bad Karma

Marika the Eternal
May 13, 2025
133
My dad is in the states. I fear he'll die before I spend time with him.We have a complicated relationship but he doesnt know that..Hes also sick not terminally but slowed em down a bit.

Im scared I might lose him, idk if I can handle that big off a loss.
i'm really sorry you're carrying that fear. my dad passed away from a terminal illness and one thing i learned is that having a complicated relationship with someone doesn't make the love any less real. it doesn't make the grief any smaller either. <3 sending hugs
My father is in heaven and I really missed him today
i'm right there with you. my dad passed away too and days like today can bring all of that grief right back to the surface no matter how much time has gone by. i hope you get a few moments where it doesn't feel so heavy, even if it's just remembering something small about him that made you smile. take care <3
 
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