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GermanHanger

GermanHanger

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Sep 23, 2022
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I wonder if people are interested in starting a thread for gay people to talk about issues we probably all go through. Sharing thoughts, getting in contact and so on.

I myself am gay, German, 42 years old
 
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whatevs

whatevs

Mining for copium in the weirdest places.
Jan 15, 2022
2,911
Man, this thread is gay.
 
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Fabioben

Member
Jun 30, 2022
38
I wonder if people are interested in starting a thread for gay people to talk about issues we probably all go through. Sharing thoughts, getting in contact and so on.

I myself am gay, German, 42 years old
I'd be down.
 
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Rational man

Rational man

Enlightened
Oct 19, 2021
1,482
You will meet many gay and gender fluid, trans and bi on here.

wishing you peace
 
Ginnn

Ginnn

Student
Aug 20, 2022
123
I have the bisexuality curse, I love everybody and nobody loves me
 
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GermanHanger

GermanHanger

Member
Sep 23, 2022
26
Same problem here, though I'm 100% gay
 
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MidnightDream

MidnightDream

Warlock
Sep 5, 2022
740
I'm bi (female) but in a hetero marriage. Don't feel safe in straight spaces as almost all of my previous experience was with women, don't feel safe in LGBT spaces bc married. Lmao
 
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GermanHanger

GermanHanger

Member
Sep 23, 2022
26
I'm bi (female) but in a hetero marriage. Don't feel safe in straight spaces as almost all of my previous experience was with women, don't feel safe in LGBT spaces bc married. Lmao
That must be hard
 
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akirat9

エクトリアン
Sep 23, 2022
386
not enough gay jrpg cant relate
 
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SofterSoftest

SofterSoftest

Student
Dec 30, 2021
186
I'm a trans woman, but transitioned many years ago and live a life that is appears 'normal' to people on the outside. I have a husband who loves me, I am never 'read' as trans in public, and my family all know me and recognize me as a woman. The trauma I dealt with from being bullied for being out as 'gay' early in my life, and then experiencing physical, sexual, and emotional violence during my early transition years, means that I'm totally messed up inside and feel like the furthest thing from 'normal.' I also lost my mom unexpectedly almost immediately after she had finally started embracing me/loving me as her daughter. This means that even though I know my mom loved me, I'm still deeply hurt/wounded from all the times she and the rest of my family called LGBTQ people disgusting, self-absorbed, and hedonistic. I still do fundamentally believe those things about myself, because it takes a lifetime to stop hating yourself after hearing those messages for your whole childhood.

I honestly think my life would have been fine had I been anything other than what I am.
 
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come to dust

Arcanist
Oct 28, 2019
453
I am a gay man. My biggest problem with the gay community is how ugly I am considered in it due to my ethnicity, looks and facial structure
 
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Rational man

Rational man

Enlightened
Oct 19, 2021
1,482
I am a gay man. My biggest problem with the gay community is how ugly I am considered in it due to my ethnicity, looks and facial structure
Because some people judge others by their physical looks. I can only imagine the gay scene is pretentious, probably like the straight scene but maybe more threatening and competitive. Just my thoughts of course. I met the love of my life in a swimming pool and it was firstly friendship. It lasted for a few Year's. Don't define yourself by what others think. you define YOU.They're be more to life than gay scene surely.
 
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come to dust

Arcanist
Oct 28, 2019
453
Because some people judge others by their physical looks. I can only imagine the gay scene is pretentious, probably like the straight scene but maybe more threatening and competitive. Just my thoughts of course. I met the love of my life in a swimming pool and it was firstly friendship. It lasted for a few Year's. Don't define yourself by what others think. you define YOU.They're be more to life than gay scene surely.
Well qhen youre gay you have nowhere to find love except the gay scene, which rejects people who look like me.

It's very competitive. You only have value as an attractive piece of meat. Even to just make gay friends.
 
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Molded foundation

Student
Sep 17, 2021
136
I hear homosexuals in the streets as we speak.

Fug...
 
asian.neet

asian.neet

Specialist
Oct 13, 2023
307
I wonder if people are interested in starting a thread for gay people to talk about issues we probably all go through. Sharing thoughts, getting in contact and so on.

I myself am gay, German, 42 years old
Gay in North America.

sad that this thread died tho
 
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