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And thanks... Being legally told getting help isn't a good idea kinda sucks
I'm sorry for your suffering. I really don't think it's fair that our parents sucked and now we are the ones who have to deal with these childhood traumas. So fuck them
Actually in the post you quoted I was talking about my "SO". I can't go to therapy because my parents abused me and my brothers still live there. I don't want to have the government in their lives, I don't feel it necessary. To avoid this I can't go to therapy until they're adults or else my therapist will have to rep port it and they'll take my brothers. I told my "SO" that I can't go to therapy and he fucking blocked me. He said it was him and not me but.... Really dude.... I couldn't be any lower unless something happened to my grampy, brothers or cats (please tell me I didn't just jinx myself.... I will kms rfn)
What do you mean? What laws prevent you from getting help?
Oh ok. I understand your dilemma. I also when I was younger had to wait until I turned 18 to finally have peace in my life. I respect your reasons. I hope you can put up with it for a while longer.
The confidentiality laws the therapist has to follow. If I talk about all of the abuse I went through (and the few things my brother was involved in) my therapist will HAVE to report it.
Not really.... Im trying to not grab my rope and walk out the door rn..
I can't go to college because I basically got kicked out of school for being abused. Same boat, different reasons lol
My brothers ARE NOT in an abusive household. That's why I want to avoid the government being the government
You said above your brother was involved in some of it, but whatever the case you're basing your decision to not get therapy, at least in part, to protect people from the consequences of their own actions, and to protect those you love from what you consider to be needless suffering.
