Fear of making others angry

[Avyn]

Dunno if its just me but I have this big fear of making other people mad at me, or angry in general. Sometimes only hearing them raise their voice makes me shake and extremely uncomfortable/scared. I don't know if this is normal and an actual thing and wanted to see if some of you guys have similar problems or tips on how to deal with this fear

 

[Makko]

I used to be scared of angry people when I was little because I thought their anger had substance. Then I realised that at least 99 % of all anger directed at me are impotent tantrums that have no material backup and don't harm me in any way that matters.

 

[262653]

Sometimes only hearing them raise their voice makes me shake and extremely uncomfortable/scared.

It just makes me feel more antagonistic towards them... Too prideful to allow people to shout at me and not shouting back, laughing, or starting a fight.