Ever had your heart broke?

[Kuolema]

Lost the love of my life yesterday. Entirely my fault. I'm the most ready I've been in my entire life. Anyone here had a similar experience?

 

[R_N]

Yes and while it is painful it is not even close to hell I am living now because of the health issues.

 

[Kuolema]

Yes and while it is painful it is not even close to hell I am living now because of the health issues.

I'm sorry Angelus. I didn't mean to make it a competition. I'm sorry you're in pain. Hope you find peace soon.

 

[R_N]

I'm sorry Angelus. I didn't mean to make it a competition. I'm sorry you're in pain. Hope you find peace soon.

Don't worry about it I didn't mean it in that way. I am just speaking from my experience and comparing it to my life. I was really heartbroken once to the point I wanted to die but I moved on years later. It is tough but in my experience manageable.

 

[TheSoulless]

Harmillista :( Älä soimaa liikaa itseäsi. Ihmiset tekee virheitä.

 

[Brick In The Wall]

I lost a 13 year marriage and my two kids. My "soulmate haha" is currently using everything in her power to try to make my life hell.

It's not working very well for her though. You can only get so low in your depression before nothing matters at all.

 

[Freedom Believer]

During high school, I met a girl in one of my classes. I don't even know how it happened but eventually we started to talk to one another more and more. She was kind, beautiful, and smart (even if she didn't believe so). Even if the conversations were brief, I enjoyed the conversations we shared. I always had a hard time talking with girls so finding one to talk to so comfortably felt weird.

Teacher changed seats and me and M (just for the sake of not calling her "the girl") were assigned next to each other. Looking back on it, I feel like the teacher saw something and put us together. We talked more often, but I never wanted to risked the chance to ask for her number and come off as just wanting to talk to her to date her.

I thought about the idea that me and M could be together. She was going to go to some Art college in the city while I stayed where I'm at. I wanted to ask her if we could go on at date after school until I learned that she already had a boyfriend, and she had one for a while. I was heartbroken. The one real chance I had at getting a girlfriend was never a chance in the first place. I wasn't ever angry at her or the boyfriend. Both of them were great people.

After a while I got over it and we still continued to talk like good friends. When it came time towards the end of the school year, I never managed to have a conversation with her to maybe get her number to keep in touch (her friends would've laughed at me or something). And here I am now, alone and soon going to die alone. Wherever she's doing right now I hope she's happy and it's probably for the best that I never had a chance.

 

[Deleted member 1465]

Yeah feels like having your heart ripped out. But such an intense feeling does pass. It's hard to believe at the time but it does. It's why beer and country music exist.

 

[mesohappy]

Lost the love of my life yesterday. Entirely my fault. I'm the most ready I've been in my entire life. Anyone here had a similar experience?

I had my heart broke many years ago,only to discover that she was a snake later..At the time I blamed myself and went through hell in my mind.My family never liked her or wanted me to be with her so I got no support from them.The guy she cheated on me with,she cheated on him as well.It took awhile,but I finally saw through everything and got better.This is what life is I guess..Take a chance get your heartbroke and miserable,dont take a chance and feel cowardly and miserable.

 

[TheOA]

I have had my heart broken. It was the best gift anyone has ever given me because it really did set me free. It was the first time someone ever treated me as poorly as I had treated others. And, while it was painful, it was cathartic. And also, necessary.

 

[Schadenfreude]

yes.
I fucked up. He's not dead or anything though.
Too much shame. But at least the last thing/person holding me back is finally gone so I won't have any regrets.

 

[MysticPerception]

I sure have. Never hurts as much as the first time now that I think about it. Funny thing about it is I did it to myself. It was completely my fault and I was in the wrong. Well I'm not willing to go into details as it just brings back bad memories but yeah. I've had my heart completely shattered because of a mistake. Then the pieces got stepped on and broken further right afterwards.

 

[HereToday]

I had my heart not only broken, but completely destroyed by an abusive narcissistic psychopath. Short version: He pretended to love me, called me his 'soulmate', promised we'd be together forever... all while telling his friends he was going to marry me for money, cheating constantly, and being emotionally/physically/financially abusive. When I finally had the strength to break up with him, he lured me to his house where he was waiting with a friend and they assaulted me. They then called the police on ME and said I was stalking him. Absolute psycho. Since that night I've had constant flashbacks and nightmares. I'll never return to the person I was before this happened.
I'm so sorry you're heartbroken. I wish emotions weren't a thing.

 

[Final Escape]

Yes recently, I'm still recovering. Sucks so bad I'll miss that guy.

 

[Wayfaerer]

I've never had any kind of relationship but yes, I've had my heart torn into pieces in other ways.

 

[C8114]

Yes... I'm in love with someone but they are distant

 

[Abaigh]

Yes but it's not exactly a romantic heart break. It was my dad who broke my heart it's a bit complicated but he was my favourite person in the world when I was younger I mean I wanted to spend everyday with him but I couldn't because my parents were split up.
He did something to me that is illegal and makes him a monster to other but to me I still cared about him so much but still hurt me so much. He broke me. Sorry the response is so long.