Venting "Enabling"

[Ramirez]

A fifth of vodka in now.. anyways been reading alot of stuff lately and alot about how to be "helpful" to someone with a mental illness. Like with alcoholics to " Not buy them alcohol/give them money." And I mean that's hm I guess.
But for bpd it says not to "agree with them on their views, put up with their abusive behaviours or suicide threats." Even hospitalizations are considered "enabling" so hospitals wont keep us. But "call 911 if someone is suicidal."
I mean I know it's just bs but still mind boggling to read. It's a funny world. Sad. but sometimes kinda amusing.

 

[lobster salad]

It's like they are treating us, our situations and illnesses as if we are trolls, and thereby applying the same "don't feed the troll" doctrine with us. Seriously how tiring can it be when we're "jokes" to everyone out there???

 

[Pluto]

They don't want to admit that their society is too primitive, and there understanding insufficient to offer a genuine solution.

 

[hummmingbird]

They're scared of how powerful we are

 

[SleepDealer]

What is with people and assuming that others are faking their pain?

 

[Ramirez]

What is with people and assuming that others are faking their pain?

I mean not all of it is wrong.. I have bpd and I drink for sure. I been splitting on friends and I wondered if they could have done better. But I see how they couldn't.
Dont know etf I was talking Anyways only 5 days hopefully. I'm so happy and excited!! How long yall have?