Does anyone get obsessed in imagining their funeral

[DakotaDies02142021]

Hello, I'm just curious does anyone ever get caught in these weird episodes where all you can do is just imagine what your funeral would look like? Who would be there? What music would be played? How many fake people would pretend to know you be upset?

 

[booray]

I don't want a funeral. Prefer to just disappear quietly.

 

[SuicidallyCurious]

If I wait to CTB into old age ideally I will have no funeral

 

[WornOutLife]

I used to. Now, truth be told, I don't care. They can cremate me or put me in a coffin with lots of flowers and saints even though I'm an agnostic lol.

 

[Candlemass]

I think about that sometimes. I think of what songs that would play at my funeral. Thinking of asking to play my CD collection in my suicide note

 

[ashedout]

I used to think about it a lot pre-covid and would try to think of things I could out in my letter about having a private service. If I were to cbt now with all the covid restrictions in place where I live, I could actually go without all the fuss of a funeral because of the gathering limits. I think right now only my immediate family within my province could go (so like 5 people) because of the restrictions. My workplace would definitely do something super cringey even though they have contributed significantly to my poor mental state so I think once I get SN and everything in place, I will quit and wait a few weeks before I do it. Those will probably be the best weeks of my life!

 

[Øystein]

Can't force myself to care at this point

 

[x~Sophia~x]

I'm not having a funeral, I'm having a direct cremation - no mourners, no service, no music - just me, burnt to a frazzle by the funeral company.

 

[muffin222]

I don't want a funeral either. I just want to be cremated and remembered for my more positive qualities

 

[Trisolaris]

I used to fantasize about it. Now I just don't care. I want to die and that's it. What happens after that doesn't interest me.

 

[flyaway]

Don't really care about it, but I'd rather have no funeral as well.

 

[LaminarFlow]

Not obsessed but I went as far as contacting a funeral home and made sure everything will be taken cared of and paid for. I just want to make it easier for my family and loved ones. I owe them that. It is a contract - I planned everything so they won't have to and also to ensure that the procedure will remain private and simple.

The people working there were extremely considerate and respectful. In my situation there was not grief and the experience turned out rather enjoyable and certainly interesting. We even had a few laughs. It is a bit weird to discuss the details of your own funeral but at the same time it was a quite unique. Does make things real.
I chose my casket, provided the exact GPS location of where I wish my ashes to be dispersed - you don't get to do that every day ...

 

[markmahomes]

I think about that sometimes. I think of what songs that would play at my funeral. Thinking of asking to play my CD collection in my suicide note

Same

 

[lofticries]

I used to when I was little but now I think it would be best to just be cremated and my ashes thrown somewhere without a service.

 

[FuneralCry]

I have done in the past, but I have decided that I do not want a funeral. I just want to be cremated, and for people to forget about me. I guess it doesn't exactly matter what people choose to do after I die as I won't be here to witness it.

 

[The Lonely]

NO! There will be No Funeral in my name!!!

(my last will) !!

NO Way these people will use me one more time to their Münchausen by proxy…

 

[Alwaysdreaming]

I've made it clear that I wanted to be cremated and for my death to be as cheap as possible. If my family wants to throw a small service at home so they can grieve they can. I would rather they all forget about me.

 

[demuic]

I don't want a funeral. There's no one who would even come outside my immediate family, and at least one of them I wouldn't even want to be there.

 

[filthyrottendirty]

I want to be cremated

 

[Dear Agony]

Hell nah I don't want a funeral. First, I want to be cremated. Second, it enrages me thinking about how many fake people would pretend and care when they didn't even reach out once to me knowing about my issues. Just... no. I want my close family only to scatter my ashes.

 

[Foreversad]

I used to. Now, truth be told, I don't care. They can cremate me or put me in a coffin with lots of flowers and saints even though I'm an agnostic lol.

Definitely! That answer would be written by me too