Does anyone believe they’re cursed?

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i believe I was cursed. I dont know by whom, but I'm definitely not a spiritual person. Everything in my life goes wrong even without explanation. It doesn't make sense what happens to my life. It's so tragic that the only reason I see for things happening is an external force wanting to make me miserable forever. Does anyone relate?

 

[Deleted member 14177]

I can really relate with this. It often seems that my life is the extension of Murphy's Law: anything that can go wrong, will go wrong. I try to hope for the best but after a while you can't help but expect the worst. Things are oddly coincidental, seem very played out in a specific way to the point where I question my reality and how real it truly is. I convince myself it must be simulated for things to always go so awry. Even when things are going right, or I feel there's no coming down now, something usually happens where said thing fails or someone from my life takes them away or gives me a reality check for why it's not right for me, etc. If that makes sense. Hugs to you. It can truly be exhausting.

 

[Ringoooooo]

Yes. My past is very creepy. Like things were tuned just right to make this existence as hellish as possible.

 

[Jean4]

I can really relate with this. It often seems that my life is the extension of Murphy's Law: anything that can go wrong, will go wrong. I try to hope for the best but after a while you can't help but expect the worst. Things are oddly coincidental, seem very played out in a specific way to the point where I question my reality and how real it truly is. I convince myself it must be simulated for things to always go so awry. Even when things are going right, or I feel there's no coming down now, something usually happens where said thing fails or someone from my life takes them away or gives me a reality check for why it's not right for me, etc. If that makes sense. Hugs to you. It can truly be exhausting.

No worries. Know that your new life will not go wrong. May go SLOWLY because we depend on others, but it will happen, ;)

 

[MoreThanAFeeling]

Life itself is a curse.

 

[Deleted member 1465]

Sure, I feel cursed sometimes. But human intelligence has an evolutionary bias to seeing patterns, unfortunately even when they don't exist. It's really easy for us to see the stars aligning against us, but really it's just synchronicity. It still feels like the universe is out to get you though. Yeah, I feel that all the time.

 

[Epsilon0]

You are no more, or less cursed than any of us. "We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars."

Oscar Wilde

 

[one4all]

 

[Canon1]

Had the same thoughts today. It's like a curse

 

[YukiFox]

My Spirit guide told me that I'm kinda "cursed" in this life because the past karma of my past lives (Including one when I was brutally raped and murdered) and that made me a high sensitive person. So yes, I'm kinda cursed and I tried to overcome that in Christianity, but ironically that made me felt worse (Even I remember to imagine to CTB at the church lol).
Today I consider myself a witch to cure myself of all that stuff.

 

[Final Escape]

I was told I was cursed when I was little by a psychic lol! How did she know? But yes I do feel like I was cursed or something. I do wish I had not been born, it's been so torturous to live with borderline and complex ptsd.

 

[silent staring void]

Yes, something like that, except that for me, it is my own person that is cursed rather than my life. Like for my entire teenage years I was almost completely convinced that my body was the vessel for some malevolent spirit or something lol.... Honestly I still kind of am.

 

[Worthless loser]

Yes, I often think that the only explanation that makes any sense for my life is that I'm cursed. Nothing ever goes my way, or if it does, it is so minor and inconsequential as to be dwarfed by the constant failure and disappointment.

 

[helfire]

Sometimes (most of the time) I think I am too. It seems like everything that can go wrong with me will go wrong, even the most basic and silly things from the every day life.

 

[VolatilePotato]

I absolutely believe this, solely for the reason that anytime I find even a scrap of happiness, it is ripped away violently soon after.

 

[Going Home]

i believe I was cursed. I dont know by whom, but I'm definitely not a spiritual person. Everything in my life goes wrong even without explanation. It doesn't make sense what happens to my life. It's so tragic that the only reason I see for things happening is an external force wanting to make me miserable forever. Does anyone relate?

I can relate. It's as if someone is torturing me.
I heard of some bad lawyers doing thing to hurt people.

 

[noaccount]

Maybe in a folk sense for me, like the idea that if you brag too much about something, someone will put the Evil Eye on it.
Combined with some systems theory of 'emergent properties' - When there are a lot of people running on certain cultural messages, or really strongly feeling certain emotions without knowing how to express them, they maybe kindof take on 'a life of their own'?

People's collective anger might go beyond those individuals and cause wrathful 'natural' disasters?
People's investment in domineering over their own children, or over poorer people, might create 'bad luck' for people seeking justice or trying to heal - maybe by making them miss phonecalls, or making their phones break, or making them sick so they miss activist things they're trying to do?

But we can fight the curses, maybe by sharing our good-intentions with people we trust, who will affirm us... Maybe with the help of plant-allies, cedar oil or boughs around doorways and dashboards, adaptogen herbs to cope with trauma... Idk i'm trying everything and seeing what works.

 

[exhausted]

Sometimes I feel like I must have been Hitler in a past life or something, in which case, maybe I deserve it. Living is like having "one of those days", but for a long, long time.

 

[Life sucks]

Not anymore. The wrongs in life isn't because of the person but because of fundamental problems with life. People are not cursed, they are victims of life.