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noname223

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Aug 18, 2020
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I don't. I think this is a danger for people when their accounts get hacked.

With compromising I mean for example sharing of personal information. I think you can find way more information on me digging my public posts. But as paranoid as you know me I change Small details in order to deceive people who want to track me.

I wonder though if I was involved in a train accident or natural disaster in my area how I could talk about it on this forum without spelling the tea on certain information about me.
 
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trying ungracefully

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Jun 11, 2025
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I have outed my location twice by giving information about my city that I guess is know by the whole world even, they weren't from my country. Luckily I live in a city that has millions of people and those chats ended up being deleted.
 
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Sep 26, 2023
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My name is Walter Hartwell White. I live at 308 Negra Arroyo Lane, Albuquerque, New Mexico, 87104.
 
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Emotionally unstable like an IKEA table
Aug 23, 2024
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Well yeah some people Ive met are really nice!
 
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nobody_oac

Meat Popsicle
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My name is Walter Hartwell White. I live at 308 Negra Arroyo Lane, Albuquerque, New Mexico, 87104.

If I swing by, should I ring the doorbell? I know how you feel about others knocking.
 
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Tigger

Member
Sep 8, 2025
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With compromising I mean for example sharing of personal information. I think you can find way more information on me digging my public posts. But as paranoid as you know me I change Small details in order to deceive people.....
May I ask what you fear about basic details.

I realise sharing name and address could be problematic.

But broader details about the city I live in, marital status or parental status, or the football team I follow etc... is there a risk that I'm not aware of?
 
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Dejected 55

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May 7, 2025
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The more information you give, the greater the possibility. How much is too much? Depends on how much of you is easily found online and how badly someone wants to find you.
 
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noname223

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Aug 18, 2020
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May I ask what you fear about basic details.

I realise sharing name and address could be problematic.

But broader details about the city I live in, marital status or parental status, or the football team I follow etc... is there a risk that I'm not aware of?
I am no expert of IT stuff. There are various opinions on SaSu how much paranoia is recommended.

Personally, someone asked me for my phone number in a private chat. She sent me hers and I declined. Later, it turned out she was a bad apple.

It probably also depends how much information of you floate around the internet and how easy you could get blackmailed for having an account on here.
 
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TBONTB

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May 31, 2025
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May I ask what you fear about basic details.

I realise sharing name and address could be problematic.

But broader details about the city I live in, marital status or parental status, or the football team I follow etc... is there a risk that I'm not aware of?
Here's a nuance I didn't realize. It's not that likely or frequent so I'm not sure how important it is. But there have been cases where a journalist, after a CTB, worked to link the individual who passed with their user profile here. They were able to do so by linking specific events. For example. User says I am going to a birthday party and then the actual person had recently gone to a birthday party. So...since I realized that I've been a little less specific about my personal details. Not that any journalists are going to care about my story.
 
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Dejected 55

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May 7, 2025
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Exactly. Obvious details are obvious... but someone who is looking for you can put together seemingly innocuous things to find a thread to pull that leads to other things.
 
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Stargazer100

no nonsense
May 25, 2021
174
imo your only adversary is the government, and if they take control of this site it will be near impossible tohide your identity (unless you alway connect through TOR and block scripts)
no one can hack your account but the admins, and why would they care to do that. Suicidal people aren't very interesting, only sellers of services or goods might be
 
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Dejected 55

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May 7, 2025
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imo your only adversary is the government, and if they take control of this site it will be near impossible tohide your identity (unless you alway connect through TOR and block scripts)
no one can hack your account but the admins, and why would they care to do that. Suicidal people aren't very interesting, only sellers of services or goods might be
Suicidal people are vulnerable to exploitation, though... the users and abusers can find a vulnerable person and offer a shoulder or, worse, hope... and take from them... it doesn't have to be physical or emotional abuse like rape, though that happens too... it can be asking for money OR offering help but then taking it away.

I go back and forth from being paranoid and being open. Can't have a chance if you aren't willing to be open... but trust and get hurt or exploited for your vulnerability and it makes it hard to trust the next time.

People don't have to hack your account to find out who you are if you share enough information and are on other social media sites. The more presence you have online, the easier it will be for someone to connect the dots if they really want to.
 
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ObsidianMidnightSky

A Void of Darkness
Aug 15, 2025
17
May I ask what you fear about basic details.

I realise sharing name and address could be problematic.

But broader details about the city I live in, marital status or parental status, or the football team I follow etc... is there a risk that I'm not aware of?
If you were to give out all that information, even in separate posts, then narrowing it down to a few individuals would be possible, and finding you in real life is highly plausible, after confirming things like your location and times of posts. It really depends on who is looking for you and how hard they want to look. A few drops of specific information like you mentioned, paired with the nuanced information you don't even realize you drop (like speech patterns, ip address, cultural information, approximate age, and perceived intellect), makes tracking you down real easy if someone really wants to find you.

Will your neighbor posting here put two-and-two together? Probably not. Will the government be able to find you if you say something they deem requires intervention? Almost immediately, though, if you are a security-conscious computer-wizard, then it would be delayed but certainly it would be immediate once the subpoena is enforced. Will a stranger on here be able to visit you? If they have ill intentions, spare money, and target you with a special interest, it could take a few days, weeks, or months until they narrow it down enough to be sure and show up on your doorstep, depending on how much you've shared, but if they are determined, they will find you.

It would be super easy if you had, say, a social media profile that was never set to "private" with your city listed and you had interacted with a post about your sports team. If anyone you knew had read your ss posts, they would go "I know someone who fits this description", but for a stranger, they might have to weed out all other profiles that fit the description and take a best guess and track you for some time to ensure accuracy in their analysis.

If your favorite sports team is unpopular or your state is not where your sports team is from, the number of data matches are smaller and easier to find.

Pictures often have hidden metadata, personal electronics track your location, social media creates data profiles, public wifi can leave your internet activities vulnerable to be intercepted, security cameras can track and pinpoint your behaviors and intentions, etc. We live in a connected world filled with purchasable data and software that can quickly analyze it. All you need is one vulnerability to access similar data points to make a connection, and once you have that connection, you can find millions of data points to analyze the relation.

There are people on here who especially don't want to be found by others who are abusive and actively looking for them, and for those people, it is a very high risk to be identified. Everyone else still runs the risk that a stranger with bad intentions could see them as a vulnerable target.

Why chance it? If you don't want your use of ss linked to yourself, because these are private thoughts and there are dangerous people, don't give any personally-identifiable or specific information, even if it seems insignificant.

Do you have compromising private chats on here?
Anything can be compromising, but I would guess that you are asking about contact information. No, I don't give out my contact information.
 
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