
cantthinkofusername
wannabe girl
- Feb 25, 2024
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Is it worth compromising who/what you are in order to be happy and/or functional?
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What meds are you taking? SSRIs? NDRIs? Antipsychotics? Antidepressants?i just feel like theres more to life than maximizing happiness and minimizing pain and while medication makes me happy i feel like it also makes me dull and with it ill never be whole and i dont wanna go back on meds but life is barely bearable as is
I'm on Seroquel lol. Those are not really first line meds unless you are getting really small dosages. I'm assuming bipolar or schizophrenia, or European lol since ik they like to give out low dosages of some stronger meds..im not on anything right now
i just got prescribed latuda but i dont wanna take it
before i was on seroquel and before that lamictal
Ya, that's normal, it's refereed to as emotional blunting.As someone who was on Anti-Depressants for a 4+ years and has been off of them for the past year and a half or so I truly believe it depends on the person and what your specific issues are. For me they definitley numbed the sadness quite alot, to the point where I could not even cry, no matter how hard I tried, but this also meant they numbed my other emotions too so as a whole I was feeling less sad but ironically I was enjoying life less. I could definitley see how this would be useful for people on very low dosages who just need to take the edge off a little.
It's worth saying aswell that since coming off the anti-depressants my mood swings have been consistantly crazy (I can be euphorically happy for a couple minutes then go completely numb / depressed the next), which they weren't before taking and stopping the anti-depressants, so it's worth looking into the long term effects of taking them before you actually commit to it, my doctor never told me about the side effects, maybe because I was a minor at the time so essentially didn't have a choice whether or not I would take them, but regardless it's something I would probably have never taken had I known the long term effects.
That's not quite true.What meds are you taking? SSRIs? NDRIs? Antipsychotics? Antidepressants?
Just tell me the brand or chemical name. I'm guessing you are taking SSRIs, since the " emotional blunting" is usually a common side effect. The good news is, there isn't much risk for stopping your medication aside from your mood worsening again. SSRIs are first line mediation, meaning low addiction + withdrawl risks. There is the possibility you get erectile dysfunction if your a man, but that's not really common.
Is it worth compromising who/what you are in order to be happy and/or functional?
The key word is "some" though, and studies really vary. It's around 20-70% depending on which source you go to or which survey you read. Let's still assume that above half the people experience a sexual side effect(I'll go with Serreti 2020 and assume 59%), we have to determine what that means. ED, which is the most severe side effect, it sits around 20% of men. Most often it's just a decrease libido, which yes while a side effect, is not nearly as harmful as actual withdrawl. As for Anorgasmia, it's around 35-40% of people, who report reduced orgasm intensity, but it's worth noting that this doesn't mean full blown inability to feel orgasm, it just feels less satisfying. But again, these are not permanent. Let's go with Sheetrit 2023, and assume that 0.46% of cases have had irreversible post SSRI sexual dysfunction. That is very much rare.That's not quite true.
Sexual side effects (and weight gain) are actually very common with SSRI's. Most people who take them experience *some* form of sexual side effects or weight gain.
Women can also experience sexual side effects, not just men. Women can experience "Anorgasmia", which is difficulty achieving orgasm. I don't know how common this is, sexual side effect may affect men more, but it does happen.
In addition, sometimes the sexual side effects (For men at least, I'm not sure if this occurs for women) can persist even after you stop taking the SSRI. This is somewhat rare, and was previously denied by the psych industry, but recently it has been acknowledged officially, and is called "Post-SSRI Sexual Dysfunction, or PSSD").
In addition, suddently stopping ani-depressants that you've been on for a long time can be very dangerous. They need to be tapered off slowly, or you can get severe withdrawal symptoms.
Whether medication is worth it or not is up to you to decide (I'm not saying "Meds are bad"), but the side effects should not be minimised, and in our society, they very often are.
This is very accurate, and I'm glad someone said this.The interesting thing about mental illnesses like depression are that we don't quite fully understand the mechanisms or pathology of them yet. Medications touted to treat it are, more or less, bandaid solutions that have been found to increase levels of happiness in general, thereby mitigating the effects of depression. From a very technical level, they do work, even though we don't fully understand why they work the way that they do.
The key word is "some" though, and studies really vary. It's around 20-70% depending on which source you go to or which survey you read. Let's still assume that above half the people experience a sexual side effect(I'll go with Serreti 2020 and assume 59%), we have to determine what that means.
ED, which is the most severe side effect, it sits around 20% of men. Most often it's just a decrease libido, which yes while a side effect, is not nearly as harmful as actual withdrawl. As for Anorgasmia, it's around 35-40% of people, who report reduced orgasm intensity, but it's worth noting that this doesn't mean full blown inability to feel orgasm, it just feels less satisfying. But again, these are not permanent. Let's go with Sheetrit 2023, and assume that 0.46% of cases have had irreversible post SSRI sexual dysfunction. That is very much rare.
Again, absolutely agreed. I never said that people can be "addicted" to SSRI's.The lack of withdrawl is another important thing to discuss, because SSRI discontinuation syndrome is NOT the same thing as addiction. It's simply your brain responding to the decrease in serotonin levels. There are no cravings and certainly no dopaminergic reinforcement.
This is the only thing I would maybe disagree with, but you seem to know more about this than I do. Based on my (admittedly limited) research, it *is* reccommended to taper off SSRIs? Are you saying that you can take an SSRI for a long time, and then suddenly stop taking it without issue?Which again, is why stopping SSRIs or other first line medication is not dangerous and does not need to be tapered off.
All that said you are absolutely right about minimizing the severity of side effect with first line medication. They absolutely are there, but they generally aren't life altering like more serious medication which can be addictive and make you dependent. Still, you are very very right to put emphasis on cautioning people, since a side effect is still a side effect no matter how small or low impact it is.
Absolutely. The serotonin theory of depression has never been complete, because depression like basically every other mental disorder, is very multi factorial. Addressing serotonin imbalances does not solve the problem if someone has hormone imbalances, a thyroid deficiency, glutamate deficiencies, norepinephrine or dopamine imbalances, any numerous physiological issues which can result in agitation and depression, vitamin deficiencies, inflammation of the brain or gut, trauma, and about 1000 other things.This is very accurate, and I'm glad someone said this.
The old hypothesis was that low levels of serotonin in the brain cause depression, so we need to increase those levels by preventing the serotonin from being absorbed by the brain too quickly, effectively incresaing the amount of serotonin in the brain. This resulted in SSRIs, or selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors.
The problem is that, at the very least, this theory is woefully incomplete, and at best, totally inaccurate. Scientists know that neurotransmitters have something to do with mood, and anti-depressants do something with those neurotransmitters, but that's all.
Psych drugs basically work by just trying out different chemicals and seeing what works and what doesn't, the truth is, noone really understands why they work or why they dont.
That's not to say that they never work or people shouldn't take them (I'm not here to judge or advise anyone!) but the science surrounding them is far less certain than people think.
So, it depends heavily on the half life of the meds and the dosage. Something like fluoxetine can be immediately and abruptly stopped, since iirc it's a 5 day half life. But if it's something like paroxetine then ya, it's best to taper.This is the only thing I would maybe disagree with, but you seem to know more about this than I do. Based on my (admittedly limited) research, it *is* reccommended to taper off SSRIs? Are you saying that you can take an SSRI for a long time, and then suddenly stop taking it without issue?
Personally, if it was me, I'd still prefer to taper off, rather than just suddenly stop.