Do Most People Like You?

[Celerity]

I make a decent first impression. After that, things go down hill. People generally only associate with me when they must (like at work) or if they are forced to (in school previously). No, I'm not okay with it.

 

[Amumu]

I haven't met anyone for two years so I really don't know.
I don't think they'd like me.

 

[Celerity]

I haven't met anyone for two years so I really don't know.
I don't think they'd like me.

So you stay in the house? Why is that?

 

[Amumu]

So you stay in the house? Why is that?

Mostly lockdowns

 

[Celerity]

Mostly lockdowns

But 2 years? COVID lockdowns started up around March, 2020 in most places.

 

[Amumu]

But 2 years? COVID lockdowns started up around March, 2020 in most places.

Otherwise it's avoidant personality disorder.
I'm INFP, and if you know some stuff about MBTI, I'm in a loop between Fi (Introverted Feeling) and Si (Introverted sensing) and it is what causes avoidant personality disorder. I've developed my Si since I'm 20. I'm don't believe in MBTI at all but it's interesting.

 

[Celerity]

Otherwise it's avoidant personality disorder.
I'm INFP, and if you know some stuff about MBTI, I'm in a loop between Fi (Introverted Feeling) and Si (Introverted sensing) and it is what causes avoidant personality disorder. I've developed my Si since I'm 20. I'm don't believe in MBTI at all but it's interesting.

I'm sorry. Avoidant Personality Disorder sounds awful. Do you have family or anyone else there with you?

EDIT: Kind of a dumb question unless you're independently wealthy. I guess I should be asking if you like that.

 

[StringPuppet]

I have the charisma of a paper towel, so no

 

[Under The Graveyard]

Hard for me to answer. I tend to avoid people, and when I do have to talk, I make it quick, to the point, then gone.

 

[Celerity]

I have the charisma of a paper towel, so no

Same here if maybe that paper towel had hot sauce on it while you're trying to apply it to a cut or burn. If I don't outright bore people, I tend to offend them.

 

[LONE WOLF.]

I was brought up with good manners and am well spoken and very polite! And have even opened doors for Females! But over the year's l've found out that most Sheeples don't deserve being treated with politeness and good manners So now l treat people how they treat me, However l do everything I can to reduce the amount of interactions with the general population of two legged Sheeples! it really is extremely hard to switch off being a Soldier! However l have to behave myself whilst I have Responsibility to my Doggy best m8!

 

[StringPuppet]

Same here if maybe that paper towel had hot sauce on it while you're trying to apply it to a cut or burn. If I don't outright bore people, I tend to offend them.

I think I'd be like that if I wasn't so much of a coward lol. The stuff that I say in my head is way more offensive than anything I say in person.

 

[Celerity]

I think I'd be like that if I wasn't so much of a coward lol. The stuff that I say in my head is way more offensive than anything I say in person.

It's generally not worth it. You have to have a cool head to be effective at it, and I never do. Being selfish is a different thing and may be helpful when dealing with most assholes. I just mouth off.

 

[nex]

People tend to dislike me first but like me after getting to know me. Unfortunately, I don't want anyone to like me, so they can fuck off. If necessary, I will hurt them just to make them stop liking me.

I don't find joy in making them hurt, but if it's necessary to alienate them, so be it.

 

[Amumu]

I'm sorry. Avoidant Personality Disorder sounds awful. Do you have family or anyone else there with you?

EDIT: Kind of a dumb question unless you're independently wealthy. I guess I should be asking if you like that.

Don't worry, a functional mess is still a mess

 

[Celerity]

Wow, I'm surprised by all the folks who supposedly DGAF given how many are upset here about loneliness. I guess I'm behind the curve in suicidal ideation.

 

[Symbiote]

My abrasive personality makes me not very liked on this planet and that I also DGAF.

 

[demuic]

Most people are put off by me but the feeling's mutual.

 

[Largeletters]

I don't know. I keep to myself so I don't meet new people, especially face to face, very often. My opinion is probably biased anyway, because for so long I felt people judged/hated me even when we never spoke to each other, so it's a difficult situation to judge.

 

[FuneralCry]

I have not been around people much recently apart from family. I am very introverted and keep to myself and in a way I have never cared that much if people like me or not. I do not have many likeable qualities honestly and in the past people have mostly stayed out of my way, but that is the way I wanted it really.

 

[MellowAvenue]

I answered yes in short no in long but truthfully it's hard for me to really tell most of the time who all actually wanted to be friends with me and who all I erroneously thought wanted to be friends with me and now aren't sure how to tell me off.

 

[Celerity]

I answered yes in short no in long but truthfully it's hard for me to really tell most of the time who all actually wanted to be friends with me and who all I erroneously thought wanted to be friends with me and now aren't sure how to tell me off.

Same. They get around that little problem by just ghosting me.

 

[Carrotcake]

Otherwise it's avoidant personality disorder.
I'm INFP, and if you know some stuff about MBTI, I'm in a loop between Fi (Introverted Feeling) and Si (Introverted sensing) and it is what causes avoidant personality disorder. I've developed my Si since I'm 20. I'm don't believe in MBTI at all but it's interesting.

Avpd high five

 

[motel rooms]

I am respected, I am loved, I am worshipped as the local phallic divinity

 

[brutalus]

cool people like me, stupid people hate me :P

 

[Luchs]

My brain tells me they all despise and hate me, but some reasonable remnant inside knows that most people actually like me, even if I can't believe that myself.

 

[Largeletters]

My brain tells me they all despise and hate me, but some reasonable remnant inside knows that most people actually like me, even if I can't believe that myself.

I really relate to that.

 

[filthyrottendirty]

They like me at first then they hate me, happens every time

 

[narval]

I guess yes. My sister and other people says That I've facility to dealing with shopkeepers, sellers, teachers, asking adress and so. some of the peopple i've talked more than once even said that i look smart. Well. This is until A) i go away and i cut off contact or B) i disappoint them with my laziness, disregard and apathetic

 

[WrongPlaceWrongTime]

Pretty sure they're pretending not to hate me