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LittleJem

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Jul 3, 2019
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Thoughts/experiences please. They're trynna make me go to therapy, and I don't know, know, know
 
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elenaboo25

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To me, it felt like gaslighting myself, which didn't, and still doesn't, work. But I'm neurodivergent. Neurotypical people may have more success with it.
 
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LittleJem

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Jul 3, 2019
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To me, it felt like gaslighting myself, which didn't, and still doesn't, work. But I'm neurodivergent. Neurotypical people may have more success with it.
This is exactly what I thibk abput it. I also don't generally have enotions, just agitation and SI. So I am not sure it fits my case. I am feeling like I would have to endure it, and it will make me angry, tgen I will get blamed for not trying hard enough.
 
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elenaboo25

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Oct 19, 2025
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This is exactly what I thibk abput it. I also don't generally have enotions, just agitation and SI. So I am not sure it fits my case. I am feeling like I would have to endure it, and it will make me angry, tgen I will get blamed for not trying hard enough.
If you think you may be neurodivergent, I would check that first. Because if you are neurodivergent, there is really no use in trying standard DBT.
 
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MapleS

you are allowed to be a prolifer with me
May 22, 2025
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This is exactly what I thibk abput it. I also don't generally have enotions, just agitation and SI. So I am not sure it fits my case. I am feeling like I would have to endure it, and it will make me angry, tgen I will get blamed for not trying hard enough.
You can always try or look into other type of therapy (look for pinned post on recovery)
The worst can happen it will not work for you
 
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flowerbomb

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Nov 28, 2024
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If you have experienced trauma in your life, it could be that specific trauma focused therapy does help even more than DBT.
 
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bl33ding_heart

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Jun 24, 2025
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I haven't tried dbt myself, but it does have a high success rate. ❤️
 
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nitrogenous

Just wanna break free of all suffering
Dec 26, 2025
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If you think you may be neurodivergent, I would check that first. Because if you are neurodivergent, there is really no use in trying standard DBT.
I am a neurodivergent and have done months of dbt without any real difference :( Do you have any suggestions what would work instead?
 

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