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It must be very frustrating. You didn't censor the "69."
Seriously, tho, afaik you are doing a swell job. 🫡
 
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It must be very frustrating. You didn't censor the "69."
Seriously, tho, afaik you are doing a swell job. 🫡
OH NO I DIDN@T CENSORE THE NSFW CONTENT! INDECENENCY

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Honestly, it depends on a community by community basis how to handle these things.

Mods are people too so there's no harm in playing along for a while (and only for a while for the sake of maintaining order in the forum). At the end of the day the thread will have to be locked / deleted because it isn't actually conducive to conversation (at least in where it's posted -- suicide discussion).

What you could do (if permitted by head mod / admin if such a chain of command exists in SaSu) is just state intention of when thread will go down, maybe give another 30-60 minutes. Let people blow off steam, then delete thread later. That way you do your job, but also let people get it out of their system.

Else, just pull the trigger. No one is going to actually be upset. We know we're being silly and completely out-of-pocket.
 
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Any time, because it's true O(∩_∩)O
 
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Honestly, it depends on a community by community basis how to handle these things.

Mods are people too so there's no harm in playing along for a while (and only for a while for the sake of maintaining order in the forum). At the end of the day the thread will have to be locked / deleted because it isn't actually conducive to conversation (at least in where it's posted -- suicide discussion).

What you could do (if permitted by head mod / admin if such a chain of command exists in SaSu) is just state intention of when thread will go down, maybe give another 30-60 minutes. Let people blow off steam, then delete thread later. That way you do your job, but also let people get it out of their system.

Else, just pull the trigger. No one is going to actually be upset. We know we're being silly and completely out-of-pocket.
I decided to pull the trigger cus no other mods are helping despite me being new waaaaaaa

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I'm only on pg 2, lol.
And I can tell you prolly made the right choice.
 
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I decided to pull the trigger cus no other mods are helping despite me being new waaaaaaa

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It's rough being new, I totally get it. Reminds me when I did moderation for a multi-national gaming community that hosted their own servers. Always encountering situations that force me to decide "when do I step in?"

But it's a very human problem to decide when the fun ends and I don't think anyone actually has a concrete answer. That's usually why SOPs exist to make the decision making portion much less difficult. Especially because everyone has their own levels of tolerance for things. Some people snip the bud before it blooms, others wait for it to die naturally before stepping in.

You're doing the best you can! Keep it up!

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I think the people who post non-suicide shit on the suicide discussion board are obvious trolls and/or engagement farming just because that side gets more traffic. I'd rather have a slower, more meaningful conversation in Off-topic than place it in the wrong board.
 
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It's rough being new, I totally get it. Reminds me when I did moderation for a multi-national gaming community that hosted their own servers. Always encountering situations that force me to decide "when do I step in?"

But it's a very human problem to decide when the fun ends and I don't think anyone actually has a concrete answer. That's usually why SOPs exist to make the decision making portion much less difficult. Especially because everyone has their own levels of tolerance for things. Some people snip the bud before it blooms, others wait for it to die naturally before stepping in.

You're doing the best you can! Keep it up!

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Thank you for the reassurance and comfort ^^

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I think the people who post non-suicide shit on the suicide discussion board are obvious trolls and/or engagement farming just because that side gets more traffic. I'd rather have a slower, more meaningful conversation in Off-topic than place it in the wrong board.
I think the OP was saying about anti-natilistic views but people took the meaning of it literal and it being against sex entirely.

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Yeah, but antinatalism isn't suicide. I think such discussions belong in Politics and Philosophy.
 
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Yeah, but antinatalism isn't suicide. I think such discussions belong in Politics and Philosophy.
Maybe? tho they probably saying that cus their anti-natalism is connected to their suicidalness.

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Hmm, they often go together. At least on SaSu, they do.
I suppose my stance would be like saying general depression conversation should be moved to Off-topic.
But! If you did do things my way (move it to Politics and Philosophy before it gets derailed), then the antinatalism conversations would be taken more seriously and not get derailed, yes?
 
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Hmm, they often go together. At least on SaSu, they do.
I suppose my stance would be like saying general depression conversation should be moved to Off-topic.
But! If you did do things my way (move it to Politics and Philosophy before it gets derailed), then the antinatalism conversations would be taken more seriously and not get derailed, yes?
That thread would have gotten derailed. just less so cus it is in a more out of the away subforum

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You know what would be fun? A test, lol. I'm half-tempted to start such a thread in P&P just so we can see, hehehe.
I won't do that to you, tho.
 
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You know what would be fun? A test, lol. I'm half-tempted to start such a thread in P&P just so we can see, hehehe.
I won't do that to you, tho.
113,386 maybe do that when other mods are online cus for some reason they went back offline so it just me again AAAAAAAAA
 
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We'll get you through this, girl.
*headpats*

( ´・・)ノ(._.`)
 
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I think the people who post non-suicide shit on the suicide discussion board are obvious trolls and/or engagement farming just because that side gets more traffic. I'd rather have a slower, more meaningful conversation in Off-topic than place it in the wrong board.
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Or they don't think where to post before they post. Some may be trolls, but others might just neglect to look for other places to post.
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Hmm, they often go together. At least on SaSu, they do.
I suppose my stance would be like saying general depression conversation should be moved to Off-topic.
But! If you did do things my way (move it to Politics and Philosophy before it gets derailed), then the antinatalism conversations would be taken more seriously and not get derailed, yes?
I think that is a good idea, moving off topic discussions to the relevant forum. It used to be Methods, Venting, Offtopic... but now it is Discussion and Offtopic. I think other filler content is left to make it harder for the journalists to sift thru information, as well as give a sense of plausible deniability (no active effort to curate the CTB info in one place) but idk.
 
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Or they don't think where to post before they post. Some may be trolls, but others might just neglect to look for other places to post.


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Ah, yes, I forgot the third option: Stupidity "Negligence."
 
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Hey, @Namelesa, why did you change your title back?
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Hey, @Namelesa, why did you change your title back?
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Partly cus I didn't like how long it was and mostly that I don't want to be seen as a mod straight away to new people. Makes me stand out more.

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Partly cus I didn't like how long it was and mostly that I don't want to be seen as a mod straight away to new people. Makes me stand out more.

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113,396 oh, also, I hope the title can't be set to "Moderator" for a regular user. Don't want to even test it as it can annoy actual moderation and or/result in penalties.
 
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113,396 oh, also, I hope the title can't be set to "Moderator" for a regular user. Don't want to even test it as it can annoy actual moderation and or/result in penalties
I am sure you can't get a warning for it and if you do I will remove it off you. you know what test it out now hehehe.

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113,396 oh, also, I hope the title can't be set to "Moderator" for a regular user. Don't want to even test it as it can annoy actual moderation and or/result in penalties.
You're just full of good ideas for tests, lol.
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I am sure you can't get a warning for it and if you do I will remove it off you. you know what test it out now hehehe.

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113,399 ok, testing (tho will set it to "Maybe moderator" just in case)
 
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