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BGman89

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Dec 16, 2025
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I've known her for 2 years and only ever talked to her long distance, we're close and I know that she's going to take it badly as well as twig that I'm dead soon just from the fact I won't reply

I don't want to spend a long time phasing out contact with her because I'm planning on dying soon (this month or the next)

Is it better to leave some kind of message for her or nothing?
 
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Forveleth

I knew I forgot to do something when I was 15...
Mar 26, 2024
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Maybe schedule one for afterwards. Sending one ahead of time risks them contacting someone to intervene.

I have a long-distance friend too and I have a pre-written message that I will schedule when the time comes.
 
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BGman89

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Dec 16, 2025
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Maybe schedule one for afterwards. Sending one ahead of time risks them contacting someone to intervene.

I have a long-distance friend too and I have a pre-written message that I will schedule when the time comes.
Good idea, thanks
 

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