Can anyone help ? Im done

[Dyingtoleave]

Can anyone please reach out to me? I'm getting eaten alive by my depression my family doesn't acknowledge me my friends are moving on with their lives and not caring or understanding. Psychiatrists and Psychologists don't exist in my country if you do happen to find one they will tell you "get a job then you'll stop being depressed" or "stop thinking" that's another response. People don't understand that I was in a massive car accident 5 months ago , and I literally cant until I'm healed which will take another year... I feel like my life is on pause and everyone's going past me and I'll never catch up even though I'm only 20. I feel like no one cares .. I want to recover but I wish one human would just acknowledge me or talk to me. I have a fiance she understands the I cant work part but doesn't understand my depression and that I'm on the edge of a massive cliff if I don't start seeing more sense in life I'm CTB

 

[Al_stargate]

You're only 20, don't worry so much about falling behind, you have plenty of time to catch up. You need time to heal. It sucks that people don't understand that. Trauma is very hard to put behind and it can literally cripple one's life. Take time for yourself emotionally, spiritually and for time being just stay afloat regarding your life. When you're ready to continue slowly then pick up the pace again. It's hard because it is hard to know how long it takes, but it should get better for you eventually if you don't have any permanent issues.

 

[waitingforrest]

Mental health is already hard to talk about, being in a country that doesn't believe in it makes things worse. It really is unfair for people to expect so much from you after such a bad accident. Moving ahead in life is great and all, but health is something most people take for granted until they lose it.

Depression is something that some people don't understand, they think it's just feeling sad, but depression doesn't go away eventually like sadness. Being surrounded by successful people who don't think depression exists makes me feel broken or flawed, I'm sorry you have to go through something similar. Keeping it all in really does eat away at yourself.

 

[onlyanimalsaregood]

I'm so sorry you're going through that.

I agree with the other members, depression itself, even though we're in the 21st century plan, is still taboo for some people and some countries.

I want you to know that it's completely normal to feel this way after what happened to you. Give it time and don't worry because you're still young.

Feel free to pm me if you want to vent or talk about anything.

Take care. I wish you the best and I hope you can turn thing around.

 

[freedompass]

I'm also willing to listen OP so just pm if you need