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natsuobun

natsuobun

Soda Beast
Nov 17, 2025
25
I had problems with a big part of my men friends. Don't know honestly, don't really like the people from this country as a whole, it's very hard to find people that understand you, I've become kinda cynic because of this, you probably know what I mean living 18 years in the same shithole banana country.
Ive never had problems with Being friends with dudes cause I simply cannot talk to them at All theyre Kinda annoying and Dont care about what I have to say at all So why would I bother any further ? And I totally relate with hating my country And the people inside it Especially those around me
 
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Ive never had problems with Being friends with dudes cause I simply cannot talk to them at All theyre Kinda annoying and Dont care about what I have to say at all So why would I bother any further ? And I totally relate with hating my country And the people inside it Especially those around me
Well we are in the same country so I know how shitty it must be especially when you are young and can't do anything about it.

Believe me you're not missing much, talking to men, especially eastern european ones and especially gen Z, it was a really big stone of my chest when I finally finished high school. I felt like I lead a double life, talking to my colleagues and friends as a mixed group and then having the boys/men (depending on the time period of my life) say vile shit about the girls/women and since I didn't present as my preferred gender and looked like a man, I heard it all. It was disgusting.
 
natsuobun

natsuobun

Soda Beast
Nov 17, 2025
25
Well we are in the same country so I know how shitty it must be especially when you are young and can't do anything about it.

Believe me you're not missing much, talking to men, especially eastern european ones and especially gen Z, it was a really big stone of my chest when I finally finished high school. I felt like I lead a double life, talking to my colleagues and friends as a mixed group and then having the boys/men (depending on the time period of my life) say vile shit about the girls/women and since I didn't present as my preferred gender and looked like a man, I heard it all. It was disgusting.
AHAH REALLY? dude romania IS HELL ON EARTH true yeah I aint missing out on anything really Cause Just by listening to my girl friends talk about their Boyfriends Is like an otherworldly experience cause WHAT ARE THESE GUYS DOING GOD! People here are so Ignorant and mean for no reason I will never understand it I feel sorry you had to go through that
 
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AHAH REALLY? dude romania IS HELL ON EARTH true yeah I aint missing out on anything really Cause Just by listening to my girl friends talk about their Boyfriends Is like an otherworldly experience cause WHAT ARE THESE GUYS DOING GOD! People here are so Ignorant and mean for no reason I will never understand it I feel sorry you had to go through that
The bar is very low. Yeah most of them are awful people, I'm not going to lie. I think that I only know 1-2 guys who are actually decent and have their heads on their shoulders.
 
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natsuobun

Soda Beast
Nov 17, 2025
25
The bar is very low. Yeah most of them are awful people, I'm not going to lie. I think that I only know 1-2 guys who are actually decent and have their heads on their shoulders.
Finding a good samaritan In here is Like trying to find a needle inside a haystack
 
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Finding a good samaritan In here is Like trying to find a needle inside a haystack
I don't think it's even about being a samaritan, most of them that I've seen can't even be a courteous person at a basic level. It's mostly the lack of respect and entitlement in my opinion. Be careful out there, especially in a country like this and especially with coming out, 'kay dude?
 
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natsuobun

Soda Beast
Nov 17, 2025
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I don't think it's even about being a samaritan, most of them that I've seen can't even be a courteous person at a basic level. It's mostly the lack of respect and entitlement in my opinion. Be careful out there, especially in a country like this and especially with coming out, 'kay dude?
The most basic human etiquette Is lost in here LOL I know AND THE ENTITLEMENT god Why does everyone think that the whole world revolves around them... Thank you man I will be careful
 
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SpencerSees

SpencerSees

I want to swim until my arms give out 🍀
Feb 22, 2023
130
And people wonder why so many trans people kill themselves!!!
I get what you mean tho completely. I think there is definitely the opportunity for us to live happy lives as trans men, but that won't change the fact that we were never little boys yknow? Like you can't exactly get the same experiences as an adult that most men get throughout their childhood and teens. Being gay definitely adds to it, cuz there's like a 40% chance the dude sees you as a girl. It's definitely not all hopeless, I've met some of the best people being out, but it's not a walk in the park for sure!! Idk why I talk like some old all-knowing guy I'm like a year older than you
 
KlMeNw

KlMeNw

They killed me at seven, I just didn't know it- Me
Dec 15, 2021
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Well we are in the same country so I know how shitty it must be especially when you are young and can't do anything about it.

Believe me you're not missing much, talking to men, especially eastern european ones and especially gen Z, it was a really big stone of my chest when I finally finished high school. I felt like I lead a double life, talking to my colleagues and friends as a mixed group and then having the boys/men (depending on the time period of my life) say vile shit about the girls/women and since I didn't present as my preferred gender and looked like a man, I heard it all. It was disgusting.
Maybe you didnt understand the humor of the men you were around because you're not actually a man. You may present as one, but is that the same? I think being a man may be a bit more complicated than just wearing men's clothes and getting a short haircut.
 

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