Being too weird to have friends.

[cantthinkofanickname]

I don't have any friends and at this point I can't find someone who understands me. Everyone is pretty on the outside, but empty inside. I feel like I am the most lonely person in the whole world.

 

[Brick In The Wall]

I don't have any friends and at this point I can't find someone who understands me. Everyone is pretty on the outside, but empty inside. I feel like I am the most lonely person in the whole world.

There's been a few of these types of threads lately. That just shows that you're not the only one to be in that boat. I'll first say that we're all here for you. You can message most of us at anytime.

But there are also ways of finding new friends in real life. Most of the time you just have to get out there and step outside your comfort zone.

 

[Kikoo Loool]

You're not the only one here. Please consider you are heard here

 

[TheDevilsAngel]

I don't have any friends and at this point I can't find someone who understands me. Everyone is pretty on the outside, but empty inside. I feel like I am the most lonely person in the whole world.

I feel like this....i do hope it will get easier for you...we understand here...i found one woman irl who kind of understands , she suffers too...but i can never trust her enough to be honest about the real me and how i want to ctb....i know if i told her what daily life is really like she may never speak to me again as your title reads 'Being too weird to have friends' ...

 

[cantthinkofanickname]

There's been a few of these types of threads lately. That just shows that you're not the only one to be in that boat. I'll first say that we're all here for you. You can message most of us at anytime.

But there are also ways of finding new friends in real life. Most of the time you just have to get out there and step outside your comfort zone.

Taking a step outside my "comfort zone" won't change anything. There is no one outside for me. I don't want them, they don't want me. I don't know where could I find someone who I would actually want to hang out with.

 

[Brick In The Wall]

Taking a step outside my "comfort zone" won't change anything. There is no one outside for me. I don't want them, they don't want me. I don't know where could I find someone who I would actually want to hang out with.

Do you have any hobbies? Hobby groups are a good place to find like minded people.

 

[999888]

Same situation, but many of these "friends" don't really give a shit about us.

 

[Brick In The Wall]

Same situation, but many of these "friends" don't really give a shit about us.

People are inherently self centered. Even your own family members would drop you given the right circumstances. Believe me, I know this to be a fact.

That's why you keep everyone at arms length. There's an old saying about relationships. "The one who loves most is the weakest."

 

[TheDevilsAngel]

Do you have any hobbies? Hobby groups are a good place to find like minded people.

I could never start a hobby i just know i would not fit in......

 

[Brick In The Wall]

I could never start a hobby i just know i would not fit in......

Most hobbies can be done alone as well. They're good coping mechanisms or time wasters.

 

[TheDevilsAngel]

Most hobbies can be done alone as well. They're good coping mechanisms or time wasters.

What kind of hobbies could I do at home... Have you any suggestions? I find it hard to leave the house but also running out of things to do at home.....

 

[LivingToLong]

I don't make friends easily. No idea why, maybe I'm weird! I certainly don't seem to say the right things because although I talk to people, I don't seem to become a friend to them. Fortunately, I'm not someone who needs a lot of friends (and some people do)

I think, in honesty, I seem perhaps a bit 'cold' or distant to people. I don't mean to be, it's because I'm quite a nervous/anxious person.

 

[Brick In The Wall]

 

[cantthinkofanickname]

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That's pretty accurate! :)

 

[Soul]

That's pretty accurate! :)

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