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EmptyBottle

EmptyBottle

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That person has several red-flag posts and I reported a heinous thread yesterday which has only been deleted, and they are still here 🤷🏻
I wonder if the moderation system doesn't show past reports or smth... or moderators don't have 1 week Suspension or ban buttons (and only the admin have them, and the admin might login less frequently than ideal)

PS: I'm saving this post, like other posts I make... to disk, so that I have a local copy that can't be easily deleted remotely.
 
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martyrdom

martyrdom

inanimate object
Nov 3, 2025
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All his posts are some variation of the same "I want to kill everyone, the world should end because I don't get sex, other people are having sex and love and I am denied it woe is me, I am world's biggest victim because I am deprived of women".

I wonder if the moderation system doesn't show past reports or smth... or moderators don't have 1 week Suspension or ban buttons (and only the admin have them, and the admin might login less frequently than ideal)
No they just don't care.
 
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NormallyNeurotic

NormallyNeurotic

Everything is going to be okay ⋅ he/him
Nov 21, 2024
659
Currently active member, for reasons I do not comprehend, "wish[ing] for widespread homicide against all who love romantically".

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That's the person who tried to start two different active threads that were just the same things rephrased, isn't it? The whole "your looks determine whether you get sex" thing?

Their posts vary from normal SaSu posts, to weird comforting posts, to the depths of inceldom. Their recent one said "lonely on Christmas? We understand," so I have to wonder what their deal is.

Is there a way to report a user themself, not just threads?
 
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EmptyBottle

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Apr 10, 2025
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That's the person who tried to start two different active threads that were just the same things rephrased, isn't it? The whole "your looks determine whether you get sex" thing?

Their posts vary from normal SaSu posts, to weird comforting posts, to the depths of inceldom. Their recent one said "lonely on Christmas? We understand," so I have to wonder what their deal is.

Is there a way to report a user themself, not just threads?
Interesting.

In the user's profile, there is a Report button, where u can type a report reason and submit.

...and there's support tickets, which get answered by moderators.
 
NormallyNeurotic

NormallyNeurotic

Everything is going to be okay ⋅ he/him
Nov 21, 2024
659
Interesting.

In the user's profile, there is a Report button, where u can type a report reason and submit.

...and there's support tickets, which get answered by moderators.
They have a post talking about becoming an Islamic terrorist? How has that not been deleted, Jesus.

Alright, everyone collect screenshots of their interesting takes just in case we need them to report.
 
U. A.

U. A.

"Ultra Based Gigachad"
Aug 8, 2022
2,404
That's the person who tried to start two different active threads that were just the same things rephrased, isn't it? The whole "your looks determine whether you get sex" thing?

Their posts vary from normal SaSu posts, to weird comforting posts, to the depths of inceldom. Their recent one said "lonely on Christmas? We understand," so I have to wonder what their deal is.

Is there a way to report a user themself, not just threads?
EB beat me to it:

In the user's profile, there is a Report button, where u can type a report reason and submit.

...and there's support tickets, which get answered by moderators.
but a user's profile needs to be visible in order to report them directly.
Surprise, this person's is hidden, at least from me.

They have a post talking about becoming an Islamic terrorist? How has that not been deleted, Jesus.

Alright, everyone collect screenshots of their interesting takes just in case we need them to report.
lmfao i already reported the one I posted above specifying the member is the problem, after specifying in the one that has already been nixed that this person has a trend of this kind of shit
 
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a user's profile needs to be visible in order to report them directly.
Yep, I suggested opening a ticket coz not all profiles are visible... I've opened a ticket about why my post was removed, and learnt it was removed in case it spreads misinformation (was smth about non oral forms of SN consumption, and "I wonder what happens if"... can probably be misread as "EB didn't disagree so maybe he said ok")
 
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NormallyNeurotic

NormallyNeurotic

Everything is going to be okay ⋅ he/him
Nov 21, 2024
659
Dropping some screenshots for yall:
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They also replied to this positive thread.

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Here is the reply:
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Here are the two threads I mentioned:
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U. A.

"Ultra Based Gigachad"
Aug 8, 2022
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@NormallyNeurotic some of that would definitely be permissible under the auspices of our most benevolent rules, but the islamic terrorist and wishing death on anyone in a relationship stuff (oh, and hating children who are born to good parents, that's another gem) are too much to let slide hopefully.

I got an alert actually saying they were "warned" for the post in the xmas thread so...cool i guess.

(oh and could you put the collapsible spoiler on that post? just cause it's long)
 
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NormallyNeurotic

Everything is going to be okay ⋅ he/him
Nov 21, 2024
659
@NormallyNeurotic some of that would definitely be permissible under the auspices of our most benevolent rules, but the islamic terrorist and wishing death on anyone in a relationship stuff (oh, and hating children who are born to good parents, that's another gem) are too much to let slide hopefully.

I got an alert actually saying they were "warned" for the post in the xmas thread so...cool i guess.

(oh and could you put the collapsible spoiler on that post? just cause it's long)
Yeah, the "allowed" posts are more illustrate the pattern. They keep wishing death on people, and also murder (the difference between "widespread death" and "widespread homicide" is notable imo), and they also have expressed willingness to become a terrorist (even if they meant it exaggeratively, we cannot know for sure).

Also yeah got that notif too! I honestly forgot I had reported that before searching for screenshots so I couldn't remember if it was an old report of someone else or not.
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(also spoilered, sorry for the post length)
 
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Not Today Satan

Not Today Satan

Stretcher fetcher
May 9, 2024
909
Currently active member, for reasons I do not comprehend, "wish[ing] for widespread homicide against all who love romantically".

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A while ago when I made a thread asking for advice on overcoming cravings for my drug of choice, this person derailed my thread and talked about their porn addiction. I know that they're struggling with mental illness but I thought that derailing my thread like that was tone deaf and just an unnecessary thing to do.
 
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U. A.

U. A.

"Ultra Based Gigachad"
Aug 8, 2022
2,404
Well, now that this fucking piece of trash has finally been banned, he's getting a send-up.

Screenshot 2026 01 13 at 12 01 32 1 IM DONEEE Sanctioned Suicide

For the record, this person had been exhibiting disgusting behaviour like this for over a fucking year already before finally getting banned:

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Which clearly was totally fine by those calling the shots around. Up till they predatorily went directly for another member.
What a fucking joke this place is.

EDIT: Oh, and let's not forget about the blatant fucking racism:

Screenshot 2025 11 29 at 04 04 23 Why cant single Asian mothers drive a car like other races
 
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Hvergelmir

Warlock
May 5, 2024
703
I think this thread started with the good intent of showing examples of common dangers, but that it's quickly devolving into a free-for-all firing flak at just about anything.

Half of the content presented here are just controversial opinions. Someone not acknowledging the patriarchy, or hating jews, or whatever is not a danger we need to watch out for - it's either an acceptable opinion, or an unacceptable opinion. There are moderators in place to judge, and people ought to report as they see fit.
An ad-hoc tribunal serves no purpose.

Lets take care to not have this devolve into a witch hunt.
There are real patterns and red flags that deserves awareness, to prevent scams and exploitation. There are also a lot of assholes and wrong opinions, but that's an entirely different topic.
 
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Well, now that this fucking piece of trash has finally been banned, he's getting a send-up.

View attachment 192079

For the record, this person had been exhibiting disgusting behaviour like this for over a fucking year already before finally getting banned:


Which clearly was totally fine by those calling the shots around. Up till they predatorily went directly for another member.
What a fucking joke this place is.

EDIT: Oh, and let's not forget about the blatant fucking racism:

jesus christ man. isaw their reply on that person's thread b4 it was taken down and i was so shocked. i knew theres bad ppl around here but people like him???????????? WTF!!! clearly he made himself comfortable thinking no actions will be taken against him, what a fucking asshole and god wtf man
 
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NormallyNeurotic

NormallyNeurotic

Everything is going to be okay ⋅ he/him
Nov 21, 2024
659
Blames women for being murdered, blames trans men for cis men being "discriminated against," this guy has it all.

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Someone not acknowledging the patriarchy, or hating jews, or whatever is not a danger we need to watch out for - it's either an acceptable opinion, or an unacceptable opinion.
Jew here.

Nazi sympathizing is dangerous. Antisemitism isn't an opinion.

We done here? Good.
 
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Hvergelmir

Warlock
May 5, 2024
703
Nazi sympathizing is dangerous. Antisemitism isn't an opinion.

We done here?
Sympathizing with something involves an opinion. Antisemitism is an idea/belief, serving as the basis of opinions.
My semantics are not wrong, and I also don't think semantics is what's upsetting you.

I'm not legitimizing anything here, and you missed the point.
Unhinged hatred is not allowed here, and we're largely in agreement that that ought to be the case.

My point was how I fail to see the value in collecting offensive and triggering posts. I hoped that this thread would serve as a cautionary tale about the less obvious threats. I'm much more concerned about the well-spoken deceptive ones lurking out of sight, waiting for the opportunity hurt or exploit people for real.

I'm not a victim, and not an expert. But I keep hearing about anything from Nembutal and SN scams, to strange fetishists, trying to exploit vulnerable people.
I think there's high value in collecting those stories, so we can identify and defend against those actors.

I don't think there's any doubt about how to identify or deal with someone who's openly hostile, and thus no value in raising awareness.

Maybe I completely misunderstood the purpose of the thread.
Hvergelmir, out.
 
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NormallyNeurotic

NormallyNeurotic

Everything is going to be okay ⋅ he/him
Nov 21, 2024
659
Long message. Person is being reported. Possibly mental break based on their last thread, but who knows, could just be attention-seeking.

Warning for misogyny, ableist language, odd implications of transphobia, victim-blaming mentality, paranoia inducing posts, just inceldom in general, using disabilities an excuse to be harmful, and more. TWs not in order of screenshots.

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1000056192 1000056198 1000056202 1000056212 1000056216 1000056220
And the new thread...
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martyrdom

inanimate object
Nov 3, 2025
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Long message. Person is being reported. Possibly mental break based on their last thread
Saw myself in the attachment before I realized who you're talking about and I was like it has really come to this huh. They have clocked my mental break
 
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NormallyNeurotic

Everything is going to be okay ⋅ he/him
Nov 21, 2024
659
Saw myself in the attachment before I realized who you're talking about and I was like it has really come to this huh. They have clocked my mental break
I hate how attachments stay even after you delete the image sometimes 💀 I realized that it didn't matter if I showed your/my replies to him, they show in his quote replies.
 

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