Anyone here from NYC trying to date my friend - suicide related

[jisatsu88]

My friend has been contemplating suicide because of his height. He has tried dating apps and all of that and is now resorting to anything including arranged marriage. He is 5'5, 28, non-religious, does not want kids and make well over 6 figures. I wanna help him out by finding him someone he can start dating. He wants them to be from NYC, if anyone is from there please lmk.

 

[noname223]

My friend has been contemplating suicide because of his height. He has tried dating apps and all of that and is now resorting to anything including arranged marriage. He is 5'5, 28, non-religious, does not want kids and make well over 6 figures. I wanna help him out by finding him someone he can start dating. He wants them to be from NYC, if anyone is from there please lmk.

Sorry, but this is one of the most insane threads I read recently. I can sort of see that you want to support him and this is really kind. But never use Sanctioned Suicide as a dating app. This screams a lot of issues. In most cases your friend will be in a worse situation afterwards. The people on here are unstable. The people on here are at rock bottocm and on the edge of suicide. The chances your dating on here will be successfull is pretty pretty low. Way much more likely you start to like someone, you start to invest in that person, the person commits suicide and you are emotionally in a way worse position afterwards. Searching significant others on here is not good. Meeting people from on here in real life is dangerous. And disclosing the city you live in should be thought-through, Even though, NYC is a pretty large city. Bigger than any city of my country by far.

 

[peacebenow]

With all due respect I dont think this is the best place to play match maker for a sustainable relationship.

 

[turned_to_one]

is dating the only reason why he's suicidal?
if so, he needs other reasons to live. a romantic partnership will never work if it's the only thing keeping a person tethered to this world. that is an unfair amount of pressure to put on another person.

Sorry, but this is one of the most insane threads I read recently. I can sort of see that you want to support him and this is really kind. But never use Sanctioned Suicide as a dating app. This screams a lot of issues. In most cases your friend will be in a worse situation afterwards. The people on here are unstable. The people on here are at rock bottocm and on the edge of suicide. The chances your dating on here will be successfull is pretty pretty low. Way much more likely you start to like someone, you start to invest in that person, the person commits suicide and you are emotionally in a way worse position afterwards. Searching significant others on here is not good. Meeting people from on here in real life is dangerous. And disclosing the city you live in should the thought-through, Even though, NYC is a pretty large city. Bigger than any city of my country by far.

i agree with the above. this is an insane post.

if he's suicidal, dating is not the fix or answer, and frankly I don't think it's appropriate to suggest that it is. he's going through some real issues that you are expecting to leave someone else holding the bag for. it's not going to work.

if he wants reasons to live, the only date he should be having is setting a date with a licensed therapist. buddy's making 6 figures. im sure he can figure something out on his own.

if he isn't looking for help, why get someone else involved, only to traumatize them when he ctbs?