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new.solution1

Experienced
Dec 14, 2021
258
What the title says
 
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Shu

As above, So Below.
Jan 21, 2022
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I'm sure there are people from all walks of life that want to.
 
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TooLate2582

Experienced
May 6, 2018
284
Yes. To everyone on the outside I'm living the perfect Chad life. But on the inside I'm so fucking broken.
 
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Umeboahi

Member
Aug 7, 2021
44
I view suicide as a beautiful and alpha thing. It is a philosophical dilemma on my behalf for me to commit suicide.
 
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Yagami

Yagami

25
Nov 29, 2021
92
What do you mean by "alpha males"? Are you talking about those groups of people labeling themselves this that I see ridiculed online? Like "beta" and "sigma" males? If that's the case, I don't believe there are any here.
 
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Spiritual survivor

Spiritual survivor

A born again but occasionally suicidal
Feb 13, 2022
510
What do you mean by "alpha males"? Are you talking about those groups of people labeling themselves this that I see ridiculed online? Like "beta" and "sigma" males? If that's the case, I don't believe there are any here.
Probably means, the high testosterone, masculine physique, attractive guy that most women desire, and things come easier. You get higher pay, u are the leader of the other guys.
 
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lonerclown666

Mage
Dec 1, 2020
540
if i was alpha i will not be here
 
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GideonVandaleur

Envoy of the Silence
Dec 15, 2021
123
The whole dynamic of alpha and beta is entirely false. It was based on a faulty study about wolves which misunderstood their characteristics. You've been duped and I wish this myth would die.
 
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SpaceCadet

SpaceCadet

‎In a perfect world, nobody would be suicidal
Feb 27, 2022
193
What a load of BS this whole thing about beta and alpha is, same thing with incels, definetly not the place for this nonsense talking.
 
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bigbeatmanifesto

Member
Oct 21, 2021
67
Here's a semi-famous 'Alpha' guy that CTB in my country:


His CTB and many others of similarly 'attractive' and 'masculine' men goes to show that having these traits doesn't always equal having a happy life (although I'm happy to admit it helps, as someone who is probably slightly above average looks-wise)
 
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LastFlowers

the haru that can read
Apr 27, 2019
2,170
I'm sure there are people from all walks of life that want to.
I feel like this is in response to a recent thread which could be interpreted as a sort of inverse of the same topic.

But you're right, which is why I don't understand the necessity in titling a thread this way, clearly "alpha" is meant to mean privileged in some way, and so it's just a "I'm the best off and I bleed too" nonsensical approach to starting a discussion.

OP..just tell us why you're suffering and leave the reasons why you're not, out of it.
It comes across like you're taking some bizarre offense to people who suffer without the privileges and benefits you may have and so you're bringing them up in a way that paints a misleading and manipulative picture, it's insulting and dismissive of those who are here for the very reason of-well I guess in this case, not being an "alpha male" (I literally want to shoot myself immediately after having to utilize this terminology).

Someone else posted a very similar thread a few hours ago and then promptly deleted it, I wrote out an entire response but I don't feel like doing that again.
Fucking exhausting.
I only ever see this happen with a specific subset of people about a particular topic that crops up on SS now and again.

So should I join in?
Next time I see a thread about some poor soul with a terminal illness asking about N, begging for compassion and ruminating on the fact that if they had been healthy, their life would be worth living, I'm going to *gasp* and get my panties in a twist to the point I make a thread titled "Anyone here physically healthy & NOT terminally ill, but still want to CTB?"

What the hell is the point to this?
There's plenty of sympathy to go around for a myriad of different problems, this is totally unnecessary.
 
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OldDrummer

Arcanist
Feb 4, 2022
434
Let's just reign in the judgement here, we don't know the actual hell someone is going through, despite how they may label themselves.
 
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summers

Visionary
Nov 4, 2020
2,493
I'm in no way an alpha because I don't like being in charge, or relied on. Definitely a sigma though (aka lone wolf - self reliant).

I agree with @Hereforeternity - there are all types on this forum.
 
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watchingthewheels

Enlightened
Jan 23, 2021
1,415
It ain't all it's cracked up to be. I should be living the dream but instead I'm "living the dream"
"Things are rough all over, Pony Boy." - S.E. Hinton, THE OUTSIDERS
 
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whatevs

whatevs

Mining for copium in the weirdest places.
Jan 15, 2022
2,911
Here's a semi-famous 'Alpha' guy that CTB in my country:


His CTB and many others of similarly 'attractive' and 'masculine' men goes to show that having these traits doesn't always equal having a happy life (although I'm happy to admit it helps, as someone who is probably slightly above average looks-wise)
Perhaps I am biased by the fact that he hanged himself but there is something subtly unhappy about his countenance. He must have had been hiding how he actually felt for very long.
 

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