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lost in my mind

lost in my mind

Woman
May 3, 2019
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Do you know some writing that can make suicide sounds a little bit more reasonable to those around you that love you so I can left it in my note to ease the pain somehow?
Ty
 
TheDevilsAngel

TheDevilsAngel

LetMeFree (I'll never be free)
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Dont know if this will help......
 
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Vegrau

Wizard
Nov 27, 2018
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Do you know some writing that can make suicide sounds a little bit more reasonable to those around you that love you so I can left it in my note to ease the pain somehow?
Ty

Honestly knowing someone that we care about are going to end their live and leave us. That thought alone. There is no word to ease it, no way to sugarcoat it. You can tell them why and explain your reasons to them. Hoping it will be enough.
 
JadedGray

JadedGray

Life Eternal
Jul 24, 2018
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Honestly knowing someone that we care about are going to end their live and leave us. That thought alone. There is no word to ease it, no way to sugarcoat it. You can tell them why and explain your reasons to them. Hoping it will be enough.
It would also help to tell them that there is nothing that could have been done and for them not to blame themselves. Maybe also tell them that you will no longer be suffering.
 
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RedSalvation15

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Mar 13, 2019
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Personally I wouldn't go with some generic writing. Not that those may not sound beautiful, but if you really want to express yourself, I guess you should write something on your own. If you really suffer from life in general, tell them. Tell them that you don't want to live in agony for the rest of your life. Death is always represented as something bad or evil. But why can't be seen as freedom or peace? Just a rethorical question for you.

Don't know if that helps.
 
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lost in my mind

lost in my mind

Woman
May 3, 2019
45
Personally I wouldn't go with some generic writing. Not that those may not sound beautiful, but if you really want to express yourself, I guess you should write something on your own. If you really suffer from life in general, tell them. Tell them that you don't want to live in agony for the rest of your life. Death is always represented as something bad or evil. But why can't be seen as freedom or peace? Just a rethorical question for you.

Don't know if that helps.
I wrote my own latter, I just wanted to add something in order to make them understand it more
 
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RedSalvation15

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Mar 13, 2019
38
Okay, I see.
If your loved ones see your corpse, they already know that something went horribly wrong in your life.

From my experience with grieving people it's more the questions "Could I have done anything better? Was it my fault? Did I do anything wrong?" than "Why?" that are hunting them.
People "like" to blame themselves. I would assure them, that none of them is responsible for what happened in a kind, heartful way.
 

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