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NormallyNeurotic

NormallyNeurotic

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Nov 21, 2024
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_wishforwings

_wishforwings

Forever is such an unpleasant word.
Feb 4, 2026
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Oh my god, I hadn't even heard about this yet and i am trans... thats terrifying
 
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Cauliflour

Cauliflour

The masochist who doodles.
Mar 24, 2025
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"encouraging citizens to appreciate their sex"

this sounds really dirty ngl
 
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Fresh Soju

Fresh Soju

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Oct 11, 2020
421
That's scary.. I am glad every trans friend I have who lives in USA is in CA at least, as I feel that's the best state to be trans in AFAIK.
 
NormallyNeurotic

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Everything is going to be okay ⋅ he/him
Nov 21, 2024
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That's scary.. I am glad every trans friend I have who lives in USA is in CA at least, as I feel that's the best state to be trans in AFAIK.
Not if Gavin Newsom has anything to do with it. He's already been pretty slimey centrism wise with throwing trans people and especially youth under the bus.
 
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Fresh Soju

Fresh Soju

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Oct 11, 2020
421
Not if Gavin Newsom has anything to do with it. He's already been pretty slimey centrism wise with throwing trans people and especially youth under the bus.
Shit, that's bad.. If CA falls then I worry USA has no chance at stopping or reversing this..
 
NormallyNeurotic

NormallyNeurotic

Everything is going to be okay ⋅ he/him
Nov 21, 2024
894
Shit, that's bad.. If CA falls then I worry USA has no chance at stopping or reversing this..
Minnesota is more reliable trans-wise, at least. But... yeah
 
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itsitbit

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This is so fucking horrifying. I'm so sorry to everyone in the US right now.
 
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dreaming

dreaming

sleepy
Feb 11, 2026
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DIY HRT is probably the safest option right now imo, but definitely do your own research before trying it to be absolutely safe!
Personally I stay secret about being trans irl, socially it sucks but its unfortunately just not very safe if you're clockable or don't "pass".
 
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NormallyNeurotic

NormallyNeurotic

Everything is going to be okay ⋅ he/him
Nov 21, 2024
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DIY HRT is probably the safest option right now imo, but definitely do your own research before trying it to be absolutely safe!
Personally I stay secret about being trans irl, socially it sucks but its unfortunately just not very safe if you're clockable or don't "pass".
What bothers me is that people aren't really taking into account how DIY HRT might be affected by a ban too.

If HRT is illegal, there's a chance the government might crack down on people buying gray market HRT to try to frame trans people as criminals and further bolster their attempts at genociding us.

Not to mention they might create "bounties" for trans people on HRT ("the person will be investigated if reported"), and as much as doctors like to claim they care about healing above all else, plenty of doctors I've been to would rat me out.
 
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dreaming

dreaming

sleepy
Feb 11, 2026
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What bothers me is that people aren't really taking into account how DIY HRT might be affected by a ban too.

If HRT is illegal, there's a chance the government might crack down on people buying gray market HRT to try to frame trans people as criminals and further bolster their attempts at genociding us.

Not to mention they might create "bounties" for trans people on HRT ("the person will be investigated if reported"), and as much as doctors like to claim they care about healing above all else, plenty of doctors I've been to would rat me out.
Yeah.. I agree, it is really scary..
 
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