Discussion Will you miss anyone after you ctb?

[jawdropped123]

Will you miss anyone after you ctb?

 

[FuneralCry]

The way I see it, when you are dead you are unable to miss anyone as you no longer exist, you are incapable of feeling anything. In my case, there is nothing that I will miss about this life. Life is just misery and suffering. All I want is to peacefully pass away and be free from existence.

 

[markimobzzdeasui]

Definitely not! I was surrounded by mostly horrendous people my entire life and those who never even knew me at all. Though I am likely to miss the life I never had but only till I am finally successful in my attempt. After that, it's all nothingness.

 

[Marktheghost]

No. You'll be dead. You'll never think about or be aware of anything.

 

[Noctis]

Nope. I don't believe in any afterlife, so I won't be aware of anything or anyone enough to miss them.

I know there are a few people that will miss me though. They're the only reason I haven't done it yet.

 

[Lost Magic]

No, I will not miss anyone. I'm tired of people.

 

[Conker]

Personally no, never had a friend or real family. Prison inmates who were apathetic lowlife deadbeats do not count.

If anything, I will miss some locations (Puerto Vallarta) that I was lucky enough to get to know.

 

[mandyjohnuk]

Who knows what exists after death. We will probably live again but without any knowledge of the previous life. Have you ever been some place and thought I know this place. Or have you ever met someone and had the feeling that you know them. Dayzavoo.

 

[.............]

I understand the pessimism in this thread but let's say there's something after CTB, I will miss a lot of people. I'll miss my family and friends, and even some friend groups I've fallen out of contact with. I'll miss the random people I spoke to in Discord servers. I'll miss too many people to count and it'll hurt.

 

[Chiisai]

Will you miss anyone after you ctb?

In my opinion, I believe attachment no longer are relevant as you no longer belong to this world.

 

[Ashu]

No, I'll be too busy porking apsaras in svarga.

 

[Al_stargate]

Interesting question, I never thought of that. Probably because I don't have anyone really close. I've thought of all the material belongings I will lose but not about people. Sadly for me, the vast majority of close people in my life have had a very negative impact on me and have been a big burden. There are definitely a couple of friends I will miss but like I said they're not very close. I see them maybe once every month or two. My parents, I'll definitely not miss them, although my departing will have a hugely negative impact on them. But they are in good part responsible for my situation so I don't feel too bad. Other relatives are mostly annoyance or I'm not close to them. Couple of former girlfriends are gonna be hardest to remove myself emotionally from but hey, what can I do.

 

[ClownMe]

Well, I dont believe that ill be capable of missing anyone after i ctb, my theory is that once you die it is simply nothing. If I could then I would definitely miss some of the friends ive made on here.

 

[Everybody_yells]

Its not the people that I would miss, but its the memories I have that pulls me at times from ctb.
Yes it wouldn't matter when I am gone, and nothing would matter as I would cease to exist. But sometimes the good memories I have acts as my cornerstone and I find ruminating on those memories as my source of comfort while going through my miserable life.

In a sense I love cherishing those memories I had which brings me comfort, but realizing there is no way I can go back or even recreate those memories to its slightest , makes it excruciatingly painful for me to exist ! The fucked up irony lol....

 

[sharky]

Yes I'd miss my ex gf, who was the most important person in my life for a long time. Apart from that I'd miss memories, and the feeling I had when life was good. Apart from that I'm not a huge fan of humans so I'll definitely be glad that i don't have to get annoyed by people ever again.

 

[Soulless Angel]

people say you can't miss someone when you are dead, I get this, but lets look at the OPs question in a different way,
Look around you and imagine the people around you suddenly not there, and you are all alone, no one left with you, just you and you alone, LIKE you are dead, of those people who had left you, not died, just left not to return, who would you miss? Would you miss any one?

 

[PrincessInWhite]

Its not the people that I would miss, but its the memories I have that pulls me at times from ctb.
Yes it wouldn't matter when I am gone, and nothing would matter as I would cease to exist. But sometimes the good memories I have acts as my cornerstone and I find ruminating on those memories as my source of comfort while going through my miserable life.

In a sense I love cherishing those memories I had which brings me comfort, but realizing there is no way I can go back or even recreate those memories to its slightest , makes it excruciatingly painful for me to exist ! The fucked up irony lol....

I relate SO MUCH to this!!!!