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Bex83

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Aug 26, 2018
61
The turn over is massive on here, thought I knew loads on here, and all newbies now! I expect people to cbt or leave . But seems weird.
 
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Circles

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Sep 3, 2018
2,297
The turn over is massive on here, thought I knew loads on here, and all newbies now! I expect people to cbt or leave . But seems weird.
I thought the same thing especially at the end of November a lot were leaving and I guess a lot wanted to end it before the new year. I left also mostly because of work but I realized this is the only place I have to help with my loneliness and ruminating thoughts. I just hope everyone who left finds the peace they deserve.
 
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Bex83

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Aug 26, 2018
61
I thought the same thing especially at the end of November a lot were leaving and I guess a lot wanted to end it before the new year. I left also mostly because of work but I realized this is the only place I have to help with my loneliness and ruminating thoughts. I just hope everyone who left finds the peace they deserve.
Me too!
 
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Angst Filled Fuck Up

Illuminati
Sep 9, 2018
3,132
Agreed. Someone should really tell those offing themselves that socializing, even on an internet forum, is exhausting - and that having to get to know new people all over again is very tiresome.
 
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Bex83

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Aug 26, 2018
61
Agreed. Someone should really tell those offing themselves that socializing, even on an internet forum, is exhausting - and that having to get to know new people all over again is very tiresome.
Ha ha made me laugh, hard when everyone you knew for months have gone! Hopefully my time is near
 
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Jodes

Enlightened
Nov 23, 2018
1,261
What is going on here? Are you mad? How can you talk about people like that? And not just one or two of you

Edit Ok so now the mods are moving that out of such a context and making up a subject title. Well then someone is really sick
 
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Bex83

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Aug 26, 2018
61
What is going on here? Are you mad? How can you talk about people like that? And not just one or two of you
Nope you have only been on here on recently, commenting on everything, which is fine , I've been here for ages and people have disappeared, or committed suicide. Just don't know many now that's all.
 
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Jodes

Enlightened
Nov 23, 2018
1,261
Nope you have only been on here on recently, commenting on everything, which is fine , I've been here for ages and people have disappeared, or committed suicide. Just don't know many now that's all.
And you're also defending what everyone else said?

I can't believe how many people need blocking.
 
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Jodes

Enlightened
Nov 23, 2018
1,261
I guess it could have taken more posts for someone to say something about it
 
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Christian
Jan 1, 2019
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@Jodes: Bex83 is planning to full hang themselves today, they're even in a hotel room to do it. You're overreacting for nothing to the absolute wrong person on that.
 
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Jodes

Enlightened
Nov 23, 2018
1,261
@Jodes: Bex83 is planning to full hang themselves today, they're even in a hotel room to do it. You're overreacting for nothing to the absolute wrong person on that.
I'm so sorry @Bex83
 
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Jodes

Enlightened
Nov 23, 2018
1,261
I can't defend what has happened so I'll just leave. But there is one utterly disrespectful bullies in the ranks
 
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Warlock
Jul 13, 2018
721
We gained over 300 users in December.

I predict we will gain more in January.
 
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Circles

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Sep 3, 2018
2,297
We gained over 300 users in December.

I predict we will gain more in January.
Yes but it won't be the genuine people we got to know. It's sad all around I guess.
 
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Warlock
Jul 13, 2018
721
Yes but it won't be the genuine people we got to know. It's sad all around I guess.

It is indeed sad to see good users leave. But at the end of the day, this is a transient community. Not necessarily a revolving door, but this forum is based off of the premise of having a safe place to have a pro-choice suicide discussion with methods included.

It comes with the territory. I empathize with you though. Burning Lights, Hikikomori, Gee. It was hard losing them.
 
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Circles

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Sep 3, 2018
2,297
It is indeed sad to see good users leave. But at the end of the day, this is a transient community. Not necessarily a revolving door, but this forum is based off of the premise of having a safe place to have a pro-choice suicide discussion with methods included.

It comes with the territory. I empathize with you though. Burning Lights, Hikikomori, Gee. It was hard losing them.
Thanks for emphasizing bro. Hope you have a good day.
 
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JustAboutDone

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Jan 1, 2019
3,532
It is indeed sad to see good users leave. But at the end of the day, this is a transient community. Not necessarily a revolving door, but this forum is based off of the premise of having a safe place to have a pro-choice suicide discussion with methods included.

It comes with the territory. I empathize with you though. Burning Lights, Hikikomori, Gee. It was hard losing them.

If people leave the forum for recovery purposes or to ctb and no new people join then by rate of attrition the site would be empty eventually. As a new person I read many posts for weeks before plucking up the courage to join and I really feel sad for you for how hard it must be to lose people you have forged a bond with :-(

I read all of Burning Light's posts and he was obviously a really special and sweet person with the rare quality of being far more concerned for others than himself. I hope he found his peace and is smiling on you all ❤️
 
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