I'm quite frankly sick to death of this issue, do gooders pampering people so much that they are considering a cut finger as a kid major traumatic event and seeking therapy.
I denied what happened to me and because I didn't want to 'dampen people's moods' I would pretend my life had been OK and think taking responsibility for everything would somehow reward me.
Let me tell you. For some people. The Gods do not reward endurance throughhard times, and you get feasted on all the more. People don't have th e empathy these days to think this person may have had problems, they would rather, in their superiority complex, just believe, "look... Another f*ck up"
To feel better about themselves.
Tldr: I had severe problems my whole life and told everyone I was OK because I didn't want to burden them.
Feel let down by people for actually believing you.
They can't be so naive to believe you so feel they are glad to ignore your sufferings.
I denied what happened to me and because I didn't want to 'dampen people's moods' I would pretend my life had been OK and think taking responsibility for everything would somehow reward me.
Let me tell you. For some people. The Gods do not reward endurance throughhard times, and you get feasted on all the more. People don't have th e empathy these days to think this person may have had problems, they would rather, in their superiority complex, just believe, "look... Another f*ck up"
To feel better about themselves.
Tldr: I had severe problems my whole life and told everyone I was OK because I didn't want to burden them.
Feel let down by people for actually believing you.
They can't be so naive to believe you so feel they are glad to ignore your sufferings.
