What's something you see in life that most other people don't?

[9BBN]

All answers welcome, I'll start: The insane degree to which politics and religion infect everything.

 

[TheHatedOne]

1) the fact that some people simply weren't made for life. they can't keep up with what life represents, a continuous struggle to fill in needs and solve problems. they also have traits that make them unable to life, they may be ugly, they may be compassionate and empathetic, they get scared of everything etc. Before, evolution would carry out away those unfit for life, but nowadays we force everyone to live and those unable to do so are put through 10x more misery, pain and suffering because of this.

2) the suffering. there's too much suffering in life and it's inevitable for everyone to experience something painful or even traumatic at one point in life. It's horrifying how some people just ignore this, how they can ignore all the tragedies and even say that life is a gift just because of what? some 2-3, maybe 4 good shit that we have overall that we need to work our asses off for them? and are temporary and shallow?

 

[motyxia]

All answers welcome, then
This video does a good job explaining the basics of what I see

Although the reality of the truth can be harder than the comfort of the lie, it is through this realization that we can actually create the kind of world where we don't need to hide behind a lie to feel comfortable.

 

[FuneralCry]

That life is so unnecessary, we were all perfectly fine not existing until we were forced to live. Not existing is objectively better than being alive as in this life there is unlimited potential for suffering, there is no limit as to how bad things can get. Many people are delusional, thinking that all life is worth living. The fact is that life is pointless. We are just waiting around to die anyway. Everything we do is just a distraction from death. It is our inevitable fate. Many people are so caught up in their day to day to life they never consider the meaningless nature of everything.

 

[deflationary]

The extent to which most of the concepts we use to think in, and that pretend to be objective in some way, don't make sense or are merely arbitrary social constructs. Fairness, justice, mental illness, duty, success, rights, morality, really almost all of the foundations of our social world.

 

[MeltedJello]

That life's just a game I want to quit playing. Never wanted to play in the first place.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

I see they bitch ass run away when I step up.

 

[sadbadpsychogirl]

pure evil and ugliness

 

[netrezven]

Time for us and those we love and how we go trough is what mostly matters. So will skip work, lose money, be silly and stupid on the surface, for a freakin good time every time possible. Will start a fukin nuclear winter if that time with them is threathened somehow. It's crazy that normal people don't have the time to even think that they don't have time. The only thing that's worth more than my time is my own will. What's above all, above me, above any moral and action- the time of those i love.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

I see all of the hatred and evil lurking within me and nobody really believes me that's it's as bad as I say. I suppose that's my fault too since my evilness is preventing me from fully outing myself.

 

[Thaneem]

That life can have meaning, but it takes a very strong will to impose it upon what is otherwise chaos.

 

[Manaaja]

Most "normies" really respect people who treat them like shit while shitting on people who are kind, polite and submissive. I've literally noticed that I get respected more when I act like a confident selfish jerk who bows to no one. Same with money. When I act like I'm well-off some people treat me better than when I tell them that I'm poor. Like if you want to buy something but don't have money. It's much easier to get money if you say "I'd have bought that but I forgot my coincase" than if you say "I'd buy that but I'm poor." even if it's something that's really essential to surviving like food.

I've actually read about it. A poor person will worship a rich person because they think that by hanging out with them or supporting them it will make them (=the poor) rich. That's why lots of poor people support billionaire politicians who make laws that benefit the rich and torture the poor.

 

[ClownMe]

That life is pointless, and nothing we do in our lifetime really matters.

 

[Konjac]

Nothing really matters.

People tend to care way too much about what other people perceive and change themselves completely to fit into society's little box of what's acceptable and what isn't, but what's the point? They're making nobody happy by doing that. Yeah, I'm miserable and all over the place, but one thing I find solace in is not giving a fuck about how I come across. I've been called weird and blunt countless times but at least I don't fuck around- you get what you see. I'm here for a good time, not a long time, and I'm not going to waste what little time I have left pretending to be something I'm not.

 

[Beeper]

I see how bad things have gotten in my own life and realize that I have limited potential because of it, whereas most people still hold an optimistic and positive outlook for my situation.

I believe this is mainly because they have not experienced life with a mental illness, and choose not to engage in discussion pertaining to the true nature of the affliction.

Maybe my perspective is jaded by my own experience, but I don't have blind optimism nor faith that things will get better.

 

[Konjac]

I see how bad things have gotten in my own life and realize that I have limited potential because of it, whereas most people still hold an optimistic and positive outlook for my situation.

I believe this is mainly because they have not experienced life with a mental illness, and choose not to engage in discussion pertaining to the true nature of the affliction.

Maybe my perspective is jaded by my own experience, but I don't have blind optimism nor faith that things will get better.

I get what you mean, people who've never experienced what we have make it sound so easy to just recover and live a normal life... if that were the case this website wouldn't exist. I'm sorry things are so rough right now. Hopefully you can find some solace here, it's a bit of an escape from the lack of understanding everywhere else at least.

 

[Silenos]

The inside of my apartment. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

[motel rooms]

 

[callme]

Normalness. People always point out "this is not normal". Yes but it's natural, if it wasn't normal nature wouldn't have let it exist.

Isn't it irritating all the small mistakes and big judgements/accusations people make afterwards? "Somebody moved my furniture an inch tp the left, so I've been robbed and there's a poltergeist call the Ghostbusters.... or it could have been you!" You tipped the table away, trying to get your fat ass off to the kitchen for another beer last night, stupid.
Or even, it's winter so we must remember to always lock the door, criminals are springing up. As opposed to the summer, crime busting period when all the robbers are having a jail party?

Oh, and red cars are best repainted, because their stop lights merge with the color.

More nonsense coming up: "You don't vote so you can't complain". What sense does that make? Voters are mainly responsible for all the stuff happening and scaring the bejeebies out of me, but they have a right to complain and always screw it up a little more every four years. Or maybe I shouldn't complain, because I wouldn't be a better voter? Not my fault the political system is unsalvageable.

 

[Celerity]

I see how bad things have gotten in my own life and realize that I have limited potential because of it, whereas most people still hold an optimistic and positive outlook for my situation.

I believe this is mainly because they have not experienced life with a mental illness, and choose not to engage in discussion pertaining to the true nature of the affliction.

Maybe my perspective is jaded by my own experience, but I don't have blind optimism nor faith that things will get better.

I struggle with this. My parents have such unrealistic expectations about my future. I'm no longer the golden child who's "just a little rough around the edges". The time to fix this shit is long past. At this point, it is very clear that I will struggle to a considerable degree for the rest of my life. Whether I have the willpower to keep myself alive until after they die remains to be seen.

 

[newave3]

I see dead people.

 

[KTbear]

All of the ways anything could go wrong. It's exhausting.

 

[Snake of Eden]

The futility of it all and yes even love whatever that is (I know I am quoting prince Charles)

 

[pthnrdnojvsc]

All of the ways anything could go wrong. It's exhausting.

That's mostly because of one of the most fundamental Laws of the Universe the Law of Entropy

Entropy: The Hidden Force Making Life Complicated

Entropy: The hidden force driving chaos in your life. Learn to combat disorder, boost efficiency, and achieve lasting success. Master nature's tax today!

fs.blog

 

[KTbear]

That's mostly because of one of the most fundamental Laws of the Universe the Law of Entropy

Entropy: The Hidden Force Making Life Complicated

Entropy: The hidden force driving chaos in your life. Learn to combat disorder, boost efficiency, and achieve lasting success. Master nature's tax today!

fs.blog

Thanks, I will definitely read that when I'm a bit less mentally drained.

 

[Live Free or Die]

That the universe is billions of years old. That the amount of time and space that humans actually take up in the galactic time line is the same as a grain of sand on an endless beach. We are insignificant. We do not matter. Nothing we do will affect this world or this universe. When human life finally wipes itself out the earth will heal. It will move on as if we were never here. It won't take as long as anyone thinks for all traces of the human race to be gone forever. I look to the stars in awe. We are just passing through. That death is just our passageway to infinity.

I could go on and on lol.. just a small glimpse into why I want to ctb.

 

[demuic]

That the universe is billions of years old. That the amount of time and space that humans actually take up in the galactic time line is the same as a grain of sand on an endless beach. We are insignificant. We do not matter. Nothing we do will affect this world or this universe. When human life finally wipes itself out the earth will heal. It will move on as if we were never here. It won't take as long as anyone thinks for all traces of the human race to be gone forever. I look to the stars in awe. We are just passing through. That death is just our passageway to infinity.

I could go on and on lol.. just a small glimpse into why I want to ctb.

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It is comforting to me. Imagine if humans were actually as important as they thought they were, and they actually had any effect on anything that happens in the grand scheme of the universe. That would be a world even worse than this one.

No matter what anyone wants or feels about it, it will all be gone eventually. Everything that you hate or love, it will all meet the same fate.

 

[Live Free or Die]

I think that when people realize that everything is impermanent it causes suffering for most. They want to believe that things are forever and that things don't change. The truth is that everything is impermanent and constantly changing.

 

[Life sucks]

Life is a contradiction that shouldn't exist. This is not rocket science at all.

Science, logic and mathematics and many things including our daily lives shows that clearly and directly but humans choose delusions and ignorance and even education is actually a form of ignorance and delusions made by govts, corporations, etc aka natalists and prolifers.