Too anxious to work, too ugly for women

[GravityUtilizer]

These are two of my depression's favourite 'themes'. They're on me heavy today. Sometimes I have a good string of days and then they come to an end.

Pass the salt would ya?

Haha

 

[oktnn50md]

Try men jfl

 

[foxdie]

It's probably not what you want to hear but I can tell you without knowing what you look like that you're not too ugly for women. Attractiveness is subjective. But I understand the feeling, I feel ugly to but the few relationships I've had have been (mostly) based on emotional connections. Insert cliche about being yourself here. I fail at this too but it's hard for people to like you when you don't like yourself. It's a constant struggle for me

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

That's pretty much how I feel too.

 

[TimeToBiteTheDust]

I am 27 and never had a girlfriend. And I decided to never have because I'm going to ctb. Maybe this makes you feel better.

 

[KiraLittleOwl]

I don't have anyone and that hurts a lot.
I think I am unavailable, my insecurities won't allow to enjoy relationships anyway

 

[Kramer]

Ever get that hooker?

 

[262653]

I like how multiple cry emojis in a row form the pool of tears. Reminds me of Doom wall faces with the blood pouring from their mouths. I should probably play Doom...

 

[AprilsBlessings]

as a misanthrope i think it's better not to be in a relationship, humans are nothing but a disappointment

 

[GravityUtilizer]

Ever get that hooker?

No but I'll keep the dream alive for now.

 

[MrBlue]

I feel exactly the same. Though I think I have a wider issue with just not being acceptable to people in general for anything beyond acquaintances. My inability to interact with the world around me the same way normal people can is definitely my main reason for ctb. It's like living in a vacuum.

 

[LenkaX]

I can't get a woman too. My life is perpetual torture because I know well that I will never get anybody. I know that nothing will change.
Survival Instinct is the only reason I'm still there.

 

[Steamm]

30y old and a complete loser, that's me. No decent job, no women, no money. Women would rather get hit by a car than talk to me.

 

[SmellyRat]

No but I'll keep the dream alive for now.

Oh oh

 

[Good4Nothing]

30y old and a complete loser, that's me. No decent job, no women, no money. Women would rather get hit by a car than talk to me.

I have a job and money. Women would still rather get hit by a car than talk to me.

 

[Meditation guide]

These are two of my depression's favourite 'themes'.

pm me your picture and let me decide if you are ugly

I am 27 and never had a girlfriend.

But you have a personality that's pretty good.

 

[oktnn50md]

30y old and a complete loser, that's me. No decent job, no women, no money. Women would rather get hit by a car than talk to me.

I wouldn't blame your lack of success with women on your loserdom. These are two distinct issues. Good looking losers can get many women (not that there is anything wrong with that as long as it's all consensual).

 

[Meditation guide]

30y old and a complete loser, that's me. No decent job, no women, no money.

These are not as hard to overcome as you think.

 

[SmellyRat]

I wouldn't blame your lack of success with women on your loserdom. These are two distinct issues. Good looking losers can get many women (not that there is anything wrong with that as long as it's all consensual).

Yeah, i'm pretty good looking

 

[Lazuli]

I'm a woman, have never been in any relationship, but never really get bothered by it. I wonder if this kind of thing affects men more than it does women?

 

[ugly734]

Attractiveness is subjective.

There are certain characteristics that are universal, an ugly person will remain repulsive to everyone. Subjective evaluation may result from genetic similarity, e.g. Asians like Asians. But the ugly Asian will not appeal to anyone, neither European nor Asian.

 

[foxdie]

There are certain characteristics that are universal, an ugly person will remain repulsive to everyone. Subjective evaluation may result from genetic similarity, e.g. Asians like Asians. But the ugly Asian will not appeal to anyone, neither European nor Asian.

I disagree but I'm not going to argue with you. I'm not trying to invalidate anyone's feelings. I'm sorry we all find ourselves here and are struggling. Just maybe try to not be so hard on yourselves.

 

[ugly734]

I disagree but I'm not going to argue with you. I'm not trying to invalidate anyone's feelings. I'm sorry we all find ourselves here and are struggling. Just maybe try to not be so hard on yourselves.

In this one thread you have some evidence that you are wrong, and what you think is only yours, it has no reflection in the outside world.

 

[foxdie]

In this one thread you have some evidence that you are wrong, and what you think is only yours, it has no reflection in the outside world.

Okay, my apologies. I'm not trying to upset anyone. I'll refrain from commenting further.

 

[JustKillBen22]

I'm exactly the same, those are 2 things that are pretty much always on my mind fucking with me, and they just get worse and worse with time, I dont know how I am ever going to get a proper job and actually be able to do it. And I pretty much just know that I'm gonna be alone for the rest of my life, however long it ends up being.

 

[ugly734]

Okay, my apologies. I'm not trying to upset anyone. I'll refrain from commenting further.

It's not insulting on your part, it's silly. You ignore the facts, you ignore the science and experiences of ugly people. You try to convince others that it is what you think it is when it is completely the opposite. This is just one of many scientific studies. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3130383/

 

[puppy9]

pm me your picture and let me decide if you are ugly

any progress?

OP @GravityUtilizer I'm sorry for the joke, I can't help it.

 

[woxihuanni]

It's probably not what you want to hear but I can tell you without knowing what you look like that you're not too ugly for women. Attractiveness is subjective. But I understand the feeling, I feel ugly to but the few relationships I've had have been (mostly) based on emotional connections. Insert cliche about being yourself here. I fail at this too but it's hard for people to like you when you don't like yourself. It's a constant struggle for me

Nah, I can confirm that if a man does not look exactly as I require, I don't give a single fuck if he likes himself and will never give him a chance whatsoever.

 

[Dead beat dad]

There is no denying that looks and money open doors when it comes to the opposite sex.
My Grandpoppa sometimes said:
'The better you look the more you see'
With the right attitude you can have some impact on your looks and your money (a lot of this is about luck, but you can do stuff).
Might be worth thinking about if someone is only with you for looks and money then to me in my opinion this seems pretty shallow and ultimately boring too.

 

[ugly734]

There is also a difference between ugly and normal. Even men do not respect and tolerate an ugly man with a feminized face. Women choose normal man ones if they see that he is accepted in company, has friends. The ugly person is rejected not only by women but by society in general.