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I should. I should separate but I'm weak. I'm not interested in finding anyone else. My sex drive is so low I might as well be asexual. I should go and live with my dad. I'll need to move all my stuff which won't be fun in the slightest. Ill need to live with the heartache of separating and being alone
You turned your gf into a caregiver, which is why your relationship failed. At this point, there's no going back - once the spark is gone, there's no reigniting it. She's not your mom, if you're not giving 50% (or more) in a relationship, she will replace you.
The thing is the spark comes and goes, down to how she treats me. And she seems to be sticking with me even if I'm not quite pulling my weight. ( I do do some things for her) but point taken, thank you, it's true.
I don't know OP's situation, but been there, done that. Broke up with my bf for that reason. I still love him as my best friend and we are still very close. Even though I also made mistakes, being reduced to a caregiver was almost as much heartbreaking as ending that relationship. I forgot who I was as I was desperately trying to fix him and our relationship.
