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ghostspace

ghostspace

ghost space, ghosts pace
Feb 10, 2020
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Hi, I have OCD and it's making my decisions really overwhelming right now.

I just want to feel comfortable and to be wearing something that I'd wear for going home after a long time away.

Please no hate for posting something so frivolous. I know it's not important in the big picture but it is to me to get into the right headspace when the time comes.

AEAAD233 7A14 4A6E A5BA CC2557F7D17F


I will be wearing black or gray tights and black shoes. I have some black dresses I'm thinking about as well, but they are a lot more melancholy-feeling, like something you'd wear home from a funeral when it's pouring outside.

I know I sound pathetic, but please be nice, I'm struggling badly with self harm right now and had a rough day.
 
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Good4Nothing

Good4Nothing

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I like ensemble A. It's pretty.
 
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CrazyMary

CrazyMary

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A
 
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nitroautnz

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Sep 11, 2020
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They all pretty but i will say C
 
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pickajack

pickajack

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Jul 17, 2020
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@ghostspace Sorry you are having such a rough day. Lovely clothes. A is my favorite. Wearing nice comfortable clothes can be a comfort. Wishing you some ease and reassurance today.
 
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ghostspace

ghostspace

ghost space, ghosts pace
Feb 10, 2020
410
@ghostspace Sorry you are having such a rough day. Lovely clothes. A is my favorite. Wearing nice comfortable clothes can be a comfort. Wishing you some ease and reassurance today.
thank you so much for the kind words, they made me tear up for real. thank you
 
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Ghost2211

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A, it looks comfy and super pretty
 
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JackieInTheBox

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Sep 24, 2020
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I understand you :) I would want to wear something comfortable too in the last days. A seems like a nice one.
 
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am1485

am1485

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A is nice
 
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ghostspace

ghostspace

ghost space, ghosts pace
Feb 10, 2020
410
I adore the overall mood for B, but A looks a bit more comfortable. I like your style, by the way. :heart:
I picked these because they're all comfy and it was too hard to decide by myself without going crazy. ♡ thank u so much ♡ ♡
 
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Xander_McG

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Sep 12, 2020
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I'm sorry you've had a rough day, we're all here to listen/talk to if you want :heart::hug: I would probably choose option A as well, it looks nice and comfy and its got a nice bit of colour in it
 
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ghostspace

ghostspace

ghost space, ghosts pace
Feb 10, 2020
410
I'm sorry you've had a rough day, we're all here to listen/talk to if you want :heart::hug: I would probably choose option A as well, it looks nice and comfy and its got a nice bit of colour in it
thank you so very much for the offered support <3

i made a different thread, i think i'm having a breakdown and don't know what to do or what is happening exactly
 
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Lilacmoon

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Sep 23, 2020
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a is cute and adorable and the color is soft pink is my favorite <3
 
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Vannillahh

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Sep 29, 2020
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I like A. It looks nice.
 
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Silver

Silver

The 21st century is when everything changes
Aug 8, 2020
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I like A the best, but from the back I don't think your dress will be visible because the cardigan will cover it.
 
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Stick

Stick

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Aug 31, 2020
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You should have made a poll I think. I really like the vibe of C, but all of the outfits are great. You have a great sense of style.
 
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purplesmoothie

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Sep 13, 2018
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Another vote for a
 
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LastRide

LastRide

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Jan 23, 2020
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C I'd vote for ! Nice colour scheme and looks comfy !
 
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Squiddy

Squiddy

Here Lies My Hopes And Dreams
Sep 4, 2019
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I like A :)
 
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SterileMoth

SterileMoth

Who knows man
Jul 9, 2020
74
I think I like C best, well I'd be most comfy in that ♡ A is very pretty too though!
 
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HelloHell

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Dec 26, 2019
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C looks good!
 
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Lady black

Lady black

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Oct 22, 2018
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I think that is a good question and I vote for A it looks nice
 
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Brokensaddle

Brokensaddle

Student
Sep 28, 2020
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Hi, I have OCD and it's making my decisions really overwhelming right now.

I just want to feel comfortable and to be wearing something that I'd wear for going home after a long time away.

Please no hate for posting something so frivolous. I know it's not important in the big picture but it is to me to get into the right headspace when the time comes.

View attachment 46302


I will be wearing black or gray tights and black shoes. I have some black dresses I'm thinking about as well, but they are a lot more melancholy-feeling, like something you'd wear home from a funeral when it's pouring outside.

I know I sound pathetic, but please be nice, I'm struggling badly with self harm right now and had a rough day.

I'm sorry to hear about your situation and I think you'd look fine in all of them personally I'd go for C,A then B
 
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LonelyNick

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Jul 15, 2020
262
A is so pretty!! What a beautiful outfit ^^
 
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greebo6

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Sep 11, 2020
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Hi, I have OCD and it's making my decisions really overwhelming right now.

I just want to feel comfortable and to be wearing something that I'd wear for going home after a long time away.

Please no hate for posting something so frivolous. I know it's not important in the big picture but it is to me to get into the right headspace when the time comes.

View attachment 46302


I will be wearing black or gray tights and black shoes. I have some black dresses I'm thinking about as well, but they are a lot more melancholy-feeling, like something you'd wear home from a funeral when it's pouring outside.

I know I sound pathetic, but please be nice, I'm struggling badly with self harm right now and had a rough day.
You don't sound pathetic.
All three look really nice but I'd say.....'C' .
Hi, I have OCD and it's making my decisions really overwhelming right now.

I just want to feel comfortable and to be wearing something that I'd wear for going home after a long time away.

Please no hate for posting something so frivolous. I know it's not important in the big picture but it is to me to get into the right headspace when the time comes.

View attachment 46302


I will be wearing black or gray tights and black shoes. I have some black dresses I'm thinking about as well, but they are a lot more melancholy-feeling, like something you'd wear home from a funeral when it's pouring outside.

I know I sound pathetic, but please be nice, I'm struggling badly with self harm right now and had a rough day.
They all look cute.
But I think...'B' or 'C' with a slight leaning to 'C' .
And you don't sound pathetic .Really ,you don't.
 
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ghostspace

ghostspace

ghost space, ghosts pace
Feb 10, 2020
410
You don't sound pathetic.
All three look really nice but I'd say.....'C' .

They all look cute.
But I think...'B' or 'C' with a slight leaning to 'C' .
And you don't sound pathetic .Really ,you don't.
thank you so much, you're so nice, thank you ♡
thank you guys.

im so upset for my family because i love them and there isn't a way i can make it easier for them once I'm gone. thanks for helping me with this, it was so hard to think about.

im on a new med that's clearly not working but for those who messaged me mean things, please stop, I'm not thinking clearly right now and am really not okay so please just stop
 
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InterstateFlowers

InterstateFlowers

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You have a lovely fashion sense! All of the outfits are very cute and well-coordinated but my personal favorite is A! I'm sorry you're having a rough time right now.. If you feel like venting, feel free to pm me. If I can do something to make it all easier, I'm willing. We support you! :heart:
 
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Insertname1

Insertname1

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Sep 21, 2020
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Its between a and c id think
 
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AvaAdore

AvaAdore

When will it be?
Jul 20, 2020
157
I vote C
 
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Squiddy

Squiddy

Here Lies My Hopes And Dreams
Sep 4, 2019
5,903
thank you so much, you're so nice, thank you ♡
thank you guys.

im so upset for my family because i love them and there isn't a way i can make it easier for them once I'm gone. thanks for helping me with this, it was so hard to think about.

im on a new med that's clearly not working but for those who messaged me mean things, please stop, I'm not thinking clearly right now and am really not okay so please just stop
I'm sorry that people are still messaging you mean things. Some people are just assholes. I want to ctb, but am afraid of my family's reaction and I really don't want to hurt my parents and siblings. My younger sister messages me on fb messenger every night saying that she loves me and it just hurts
 
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