People who make you feel jealous

[BruhXDDDDD]

Pretty straightforward thread. What kind of people make you feel jealous?

 

[Marine]

"Priviledged" people aka beautiful, skinny, healthy and fit people born and raised in loving families with great circumstances, who've lived life fully, are fullfilled relationally, in their studies and careers, and financially comfortable and have no major obstacle to the kind of life they want to live.

It's so triggering, my brain goes like "THIS IS MY BIRTHRIGHT I HAVE TO OBTAIN THESE" (what can be obtained at this point such as physical beauty etc, relationships...). I swear I go through this everyday, thinking how getting consequent reparation (in the form of these fullfilling things I crave so much plus more of it in my next life) for the absolute hell I've endured so far is the only way I can live, and then I look at the damage and I wonder how I could fix it all and who could help me out of hell when the curse keeps repelling everything and everyone I need...

 

[FuneralCry]

I am only envious of those who no longer exist, personally. As long as someone is alive they are able to suffer and to me that is nothing to envy. I particularly envy those who were able to exit this life peacefully and those who die in their sleep.

 

[Lost Magic]

I am not jealous but I can't stand the amount of privilege and inequality that is in the world. When you watch documentaries about people whose wells are literally running dry, it just breaks your heart. You can't bear to look at people on private yachts or paradise tropical islands when you see so much indignity. People are too damn greedy. We have a finite amount of resources but we are allowing huge corporations to rape and pillage mother earth just to get disgusting rich. I don't look up to those types of people. I loathe them.

 

[WorthlessTrash]

Women.

 

[lofticries]

People that are labeled geniuses.

I'm also jelly of ppl with money but not overly rich ppl since those ppl creep and disgust me.

 

[emptyjokes]

I know a couple of people that are largely unburdened by the obstacles of the modern world. Unaware of the types of obstacles that myself and others have to clear just to stay above water. Wealthy parents, physically and mentally healthy and attractive, straight and white, conventional interests, etc. one of them said that he "doesn't believe that depression exists". They fit perfectly into the mold that society wants people to fill, and from that pedestal they simply don't get why life can be so hard for others. At the end of the day I know that they'll be happy and well off, and likely never understand why people suffer from depression and kill themselves, even after I do it.

 

[Hollowman]

People who can enjoy life and find purpose.

 

[Zegers]

People who live more or less the way they want to, content, healthy, well off, with a good family and social support.

 

[natali4]

"Priviledged" people aka beautiful, skinny, healthy and fit people born and raised in loving families with great circumstances, who've lived life fully, are fullfilled relationally, in their studies and careers, and financially comfortable and have no major obstacle to the kind of life they want to live.

It's so triggering, my brain goes like "THIS IS MY BIRTHRIGHT I HAVE TO OBTAIN THESE" (what can be obtained at this point such as physical beauty etc, relationships...). I swear I go through this everyday, thinking how getting consequent reparation (in the form of these fullfilling things I crave so much plus more of it in my next life) for the absolute hell I've endured so far is the only way I can live, and then I look at the damage and I wonder how I could fix it all and who could help me out of hell when the curse keeps repelling everything and everyone I need...

I agree. But I think what makes me jealous of the "privileged" people is their lack of emotional intelligence to understand other people's circumstances. If I share my struggles with someone who is "privileged", they will never understand and often invalidate my feelings. That's what really gets me.

 

[Zegers]

I agree. But I think what makes me jealous of the "privileged" people is their lack of emotional intelligence to understand other people's circumstances. If I share my struggles with someone who is "privileged", they will never understand and often invalidate my feelings. That's what really gets me.

People generally don't understand or care about what doesn't happen to them, it's not a matter of being privileged or homeless, it's a matter of stupidity.

 

[WorthlessTrash]

People generally don't understand or care about what doesn't happen to them, it's not a matter of being privileged or homeless, it's a matter of stupidity.

I would say selfishness more than stupidity.

 

[natali4]

People generally don't understand or care about what doesn't happen to them, it's not a matter of being privileged or homeless, it's a matter of stupidity.

They are too self-involved.

 

[Hirokami]

As much as I hate to admit it, normies to a degree. Yes, they're often ignorant of the world around them. However, they seem so content with lives. Most of them never considered ctb, and the ones that did managed to recover. They can actually socialize and tend to have an optimistic view on life. Again, yes, all of that is rooted in ignorance. Though, isn't ignorance bliss?

 

[Marine]

I agree. But I think what makes me jealous of the "privileged" people is their lack of emotional intelligence to understand other people's circumstances. If I share my struggles with someone who is "privileged", they will never understand and often invalidate my feelings. That's what really gets me.

I don't feel jealous of that because I think that's a lacking area so I actually pity them for being so stupid but it is very infuriating I know. Not all priviledged people are like that thankfully.

 

[Weebster]

Chad makes me jealous because I was once one but lost my seat on the throne due to mental illness

 

[Zegers]

Chad makes me jealous because I was once one but lost my seat on the throne due to mental illness

It must be hard to go down a level, sorry man.

They are too self-involved.

Id say it's simply no their business, I don't worry about things that don't happen to me either.

 

[ShellofmyFormerSelf]

People who weren't chemically lobotomised by antidepressants. I can't feel my **** or emotions.

 

[sick.faery]

really really pretty girls, celebrities, people that are younger than me, and rich people

 

[DynamicDepression]

People who were aborted.

 

[freedompass]

People who were aborted.

Pretty much same tbh. To say I'm jealous of anyone currently in a meatsuit would be ultimately untrue since shit can happen to any of them at any time. Devastating and life altering shit that can do a number on the sunniest happiest person's state of mind. Have I ever felt jealous of anyone? Sure I have but end of the day there is nothing and no one in this world I aspire to do or be.

 

[whatevs]

Those that sleep well and feel something upon ejaculation.

 

[outatime_85]

Since I can't control who is successful, smart, etc, I have chosen to follow the below.

Never be jealous of others, good or bad: Jealousy, like regret, is often toxic. Comparison is the thief of joy, as they say, and we often fall into the trap of measuring our "behind-the-scenes" against others' "highlight reels."-- The Dokkodo: Miyamoto Musashi

People who appear to have it all together and are successful in everything they touch, still have something missing in their lives.

 

[GentleJerk]

Those who still have good health. Though I try to just feel happy for them.

 

[_Alfarooq_]

People who travel and go on holidays and leave my rotting in this boring country called the UK

 

[StolenLife]

Philantrophists and people who still have empathy and hope for humanity, things that I've lost over the years. People who are kind to others and to me, because I don't deserve that kindness and I can't return it back.