Obsessive Love Disorder?

[WarRunner]

I've been in love with this one girl named Michelle for over a year now. When I learned she thought me of as a stalker after I messaged her multiple times on two different accounts, I collapsed. After being released from the hospital I made a note about wanting to still be with her. I haven't met a prettier woman in my life, I probably will never meet one again. I will die alone and hopefully with grace, but killing myself over a girl is not the answer...........

 

[Starcitty]

It's ok. You should probably try another approach though with trying to get girls. She might've been really uncomfortable with how pushy you might've seemed. I'm not the best with love advice though but I think it's possible to meet someone prettier or someone who's into you. I also hope that you can explain yourself to Michelle (even if she rejects you it's best to not be on bad terms with someone.)

 

[Intheo]

I've been through this when I was younger. Trust me, it feels like she's the only one for you, but she's just one woman out of millions. There are girls just as pretty if not prettier. Girls who are kinder and more genuine.

 

[Deleted member 19654]

If someone isn't responding to you in the way that you want, you just gotta leave it be. Don't waste your time and energy on someone who doesn't feel the same way. If she doesn't feel the same way then she doesn't feel the same way. You can't force someone to like you. We're all different people with different tastes and preferences. As a girl myself, it can be scary to be on the receiving end of that sort of attention. I agree with trying a different approach. You live and learn from your experiences. Right now it may feel like she's the only one for you but there are so many girls out there you haven't even met yet.

 

[HeavensOpenDoor]

but killing myself over a girl is not the answer...........

It sure ain't! Women come and go my friend, just get out there and test the waters. Learning how to talk to girls comfortably is a learned skill, you get better as you go along.

 

[Meditation guide]

You have to learn that just because you love someone they may not want you in their life at all. You can't force yourself on anyone. They have boundaries you have to respect. I loved somone for four years in my 20's who didn't love me back. I wish I had those years back and knew then what I know now, to leave it and forget it.