Venting No friends

[LifeIsASadist]

I don't have any IRL friends, my closest friend is a guy from Honduras that I intend to meet IRL if I don't CTB but thats long ways away because some stupid Honduran law mandates you to be 21 to fly alone. Don't even get me started on never having a gf either.

 

[Defect]

i feel you. i am heavy disabled since very young age. i have 1irl but he lives in other city now. has wife and child so we dont have as much contact as before. me myself i never had gf and any romantic relationship

 

[darksouls]

I am very sorry for your situation
would it be possible for your friend to visit you?

 

[Grog]

I have a couple "friends" who are good people, but we don't have much in common at all. I don't have a "best friend" or anyone like that; IRL nor online. I don't feel particularly odd, but from my perspective, that's always the role I get placed in in any sort of social group -- the odd one out. I think my hobbies and interests are really neat, but I guess most others don't think so? I feel like I can never relate to anyone and that I have nothing in common with anyone. Or, if I do so happen to find people with similar interests, they already have their own little clique or circle, so they don't want to be friends with anyone else.

I wish I had a best friend.

 

[darksouls]

my beloved pets were the only friends I had in my life

 

[cemeteryismyhome]

I wish, and don't wish at the same time, that you could feel like I do now about friends. It used to hurt from time to time when I was younger. Now I don't even want friends, I want to be alone and distant from others. I think it's like when someone can't move one of their limbs for a long time, it wastes away. I think my friendship department wasted away due to lack of activity. Now I don't care. But since you are in a situation where you do want friends, I hope you find something. Ideally, everyone should have friends. The thing with Honduras is probably to protect younger people from human trafficking, would be my guess.

... I don't feel particularly odd, but from my perspective, that's always the role I get placed in in any sort of social group -- the odd one out. ...

I came to the same conclusion about myself, and have even told people that, as a pre-emptive warning. I like to think it's an evolutionary thing. A few outliers help the tribe survive I guess.

 

[Grog]

my beloved pets were the only friends I had in my life

I love my pets to death -- more than any human~ <3

 

[thereisnoneed]

I don't have any IRL friends, my closest friend is a guy from Honduras that I intend to meet IRL if I don't CTB but thats long ways away because some stupid Honduran law mandates you to be 21 to fly alone. Don't even get me started on never having a gf either.

same, same, I never had a friend I.R.L before.

 

[LifeIsASadist]

I am very sorry for your situation
would it be possible for your friend to visit you?

Yes but he would need written permission from his abusive mom and not only that, he would have to explain to his mom why he needs to visit some internet friend IRL

 

[Lost21]

I never had a friend in my whole life

 

[tulero]

losing friends is part of adult life

back then when I started university I made a small group of friends which I spent 4 years with studying, people you could count on to make you a favor, etc.

but after some years you lose contact with them as if nothing between you and them ever happened

whether you like it or not, thats the real life

 

[LifeIsASadist]

losing friends is part of adult life

back then when I started university I made a small group of friends which I spent 4 years with studying, people you could count on to make you a favor, etc.

Havent even had a friend in my teen years.

but after some years you lose contact with them as if nothing between you and them ever happened

whether you like it or not, thats the real life

 

[tulero]

Havent even had a friend in my teen years.

sorry to ear that

but at the end we have no friends, just a bunch of people we have some interests in common and we decide to keep them near. And our paths tend to diverge as time goes and new responsabilities emerge

probably the concept of friendship is no longer a real thing in this world