Venting My grandma is doomed.

[Interdegenerate]

My grandmothers are the two people I have absolutely no respect for on this Earth. I have no clue why both of my grandmothers have turned out diabolical.

My paternal grandmother lived her life as a controlling narcissist. She has the personality of Donald Trump but she obviously has nowhere near the accomplishments to warrant that behavior. She lives off the money earned by my deceased paternal grandfather. She bullied him in his last years and I know that because I lived with them at the time. She was truly evil with him and my grandpa was nothing but conciliatory with her.

Now my dad lives her and every word that comes out of her mouth is an insult about him. She's utterly clueless regarding the weak position she is in. She complains about everyone who helps her. She begs me to come back and live with her. I'd rather be homeless than live with Satan again.

She refuses to talk to her sister. Her other children refuse to visit her. My dad has the unfortunate feeling of obligation for her, even though she constricts him like a piper. He is like his father, a completely weak pushover who has consistently destroyed his life in order to please women in his life (my mom was the first).

 

[bankai]

Ah, the evil grandmother. I had one too, on my father's side. On my mother's side, my grandmother died when my mother was still a young girl.

My dad's mother was just a cruel piece of work. Imagine when her granddaughter, my sister, got married. She filed a false police complaint on my sister's name the day before her marriage. Just to interfere with the marriage. Imagine the hatred that these people harbor to do that kind of thing.

Not surprising. Some people are born cruel, and they only get worse with age. I mean, so many fairy tales are filled with tropes of these people after all.

 

[Interdegenerate]

Ah, the evil grandmother. I had one too, on my father's side. On my mother's side, my grandmother died when my mother was still a young girl.

My dad's mother was just a cruel piece of work. Imagine when her granddaughter, my sister, got married. She filed a false police complaint on my sister's name the day before her marriage. Just to interfere with the marriage. Imagine the hatred that these people harbor to do that kind of thing.

Not surprising. Some people are born cruel, and they only get worse with age. I mean, so many fairy tales are filled with tropes of these people after all.

It's no wonder we both find ourselves on this site.

 

[bankai]

It's no wonder we both find ourselves on this site.

Absolutely, it's generational abuse and trauma.

 

[EternalShore]

I pray that she may be humbled soon~ :( I'm sorry that you have to deal with someone like her being very mean to you and others in your family~ >_< being awful to your dying husband is just~ >:(

 

[bankai]

I pray that she may be humbled soon~ :( I'm sorry that you have to deal with someone like her being very mean to you and others in your family~ >_< being awful to your dying husband is just~ >:(

She's not kyute at all

 

[EternalShore]

She's not kyute at all

and she's older and needs (rather than wants) help no less!

 

[bankai]

and she's older and needs (rather than wants) help no less!

Pretty funny that she still behaves so badly when she is in desperate need for help.

makes you wonder what a terror she might have been when she was younger and healthy.