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therhydler

therhydler

Enlightened
Dec 7, 2018
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Very kind and wise. And knows how to delve into things.... I hate those therapists who when I walk in stare at me expectantly for about a minute. What the hell am I supposed to say? I'm not good at talking. But talking with this guy is easy.

Anyway, just wanted to share this. I think he deserves a prize.

The lavendarian can go to hell.
 
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Redt2go

Redt2go

flower child
Jan 5, 2019
1,643
YAY
 
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Whatshername

Whatshername

That Ghost Lady on the Hill
Dec 14, 2018
1,352
Very kind and wise. And knows how to delve into things.... I hate those therapists who when I walk in stare at me expectantly for about a minute. What the hell am I supposed to say? I'm not good at talking. But talking with this guy is easy.

Anyway, just wanted to share this. I think he deserves a prize.

The lavendarian can go to hell.

Glad for you, that kind of therapist is indeed as rare as a white crow. I hope he doesn't disappoint in the long run either. They are sneaky.
All the best for you ā¤ļø
 
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therhydler

therhydler

Enlightened
Dec 7, 2018
1,196
Glad for you, that kind of therapist is indeed as rare as a white crow. I hope he doesn't disappoint in the long run either. They are sneaky.
All the best for you ā¤ļø

Thank you ♔♔
 
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journeytotheend

journeytotheend

Member
Jan 1, 2019
71
I am so happy for you! In my experience, there are quite a few good psychiatrists out there, but finding one that is good that you also have the right "chemistry" with is rare. Not a good talker myself, especially in a setting like that, so I 've spent many dreadful moments of silence in the therapist office. Hope it will give you some relief!
 
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therhydler

therhydler

Enlightened
Dec 7, 2018
1,196
I am so happy for you! In my experience, there are quite a few good psychiatrists out there, but finding one that is good that you also have the right "chemistry" with is rare. Not a good talker myself, especially in a setting like that, so I 've spent many dreadful moments of silence in the therapist office. Hope it will give you some relief!

Thanks ā™”
 
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JustAboutDone

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Jan 1, 2019
3,532
Aww my @therhydler i am so pleased :-) It makes all the difference when the person helping you treats you like a real person and you can respond normally and get something out of the time there. Thank goodness you ditched the Lavenderian.

and it's really kind that you posted this thread as I think it gives hope to anyone else who has had a bad experience with one therapist that there may be another one out there who is actually human. Xx
 
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Norest4thewicked

Norest4thewicked

Losing it
Nov 4, 2018
270
@therhydler, good to hear you got a decent one. They are rare to find.
 
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Misanthrope

Misanthrope

Mage
Oct 23, 2018
557
Very kind and wise. And knows how to delve into things.... I hate those therapists who when I walk in stare at me expectantly for about a minute. What the hell am I supposed to say? I'm not good at talking. But talking with this guy is easy.

Anyway, just wanted to share this. I think he deserves a prize.

The lavendarian can go to hell.

Really pleased for you. Therapists are always a gamble, as is anything involving the human species. I hope he can arm you with the tools you may need to gain a better quality of life. I wish you the strength required to endure harder moments that crop up in therapy.

Peace.
 
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21Neberg

21Neberg

Enlightened
Dec 17, 2018
1,624
So good to read! I hope things continue to go well!
 
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