Venting Just want someone to talk to

[bluejorvik]

Just going through a really shitty breakup. She says she still loves me but doesn't want to be together because we don't communicate well. Sent her flowers and she didn't acknowledge them. Can't see how I will ever find anyone else - I'm a trans guy and in the UK everyone hates us now. Wondering if tonight is the right night to CTB

 

[wham311]

How long were you together?

You cN still get them back but you kinda have to let them come to you. Aggressing anymore will push them away.

 

[bluejorvik]

How long were you together?

You cN still get them back but you kinda have to let them come to you. Aggressing anymore will push them away.

2.5 years, and I'm pretty sure it's done for good

 

[wham311]

2.5 years, and I'm pretty sure it's done for good

Thats a long time. Could be done that's hard to get over.

If you accept and tell them the door is open and move on with your life, very high likelihood they return if they see you happy and moving on. But you should be doing that anyways

 

[lifeisadream]

That's awful to go through, so sorry. Maybe she needs a bit of time & space. You did a lovely thing with sending flowers. I'm in the UK and don't hate trans guys. Society is just messed up & cruel so try to ignore the haters who lack understanding. They're not worth your time.

 

[bluejorvik]

That's awful to go through, so sorry. Maybe she needs a bit of time & space. You did a lovely thing with sending flowers. I'm in the UK and don't hate trans guys. Society is just messed up & cruel so try to ignore the haters who lack understanding. They're not worth your time.

Thank you, just feels like no one will want to be with me now because of everything

 

[lifeisadream]

You're going through an incredibly tough time & it probably feels like your world has fallen apart because the one you love has walked away. But hang in there. The world moves in mysterious ways & someone will walk into your life to sweep you off your feet when you're not expecting it. There is someone out there who will love you for being you.

 

[bluejorvik]

You're going through an incredibly tough time & it probably feels like your world has fallen apart because the one you love has walked away. But hang in there. The world moves in mysterious ways & someone will walk into your life to sweep you off your feet when you're not expecting it. There is someone out there who will love you for being you.

Thank you for saying that. I just feel incredibly lonely right now

 

[lifeisadream]

It is horrible to feel lonely & alone with your thoughts in a world where you feel no one cares or understands you. No one should ever feel that way. Sending you hugs so you know you're not alone.

 

[SchizoGymnast]

I'm nonbinary. I might be able to help.

 

[ObsidianEnigma]

This is a fresh wound. Judging from my experience, it will likely get better over time, but it may not heal completely. Sadly, the pain cannot be removed, you will feel bad for some time. I agree with wham311. I think it's better to give her some space. Do not follow her on social networks, as it would only prolong the pain. This isn't about erasing her, but you don't want to give yourself a constant reminder of the pain. Let her come back if she wishes.