• Hey Guest,

    We wanted to share a quick update with the community.

    Our public expense ledger is now live, allowing anyone to see how donations are used to support the ongoing operation of the site.

    👉 View the ledger here

    Over the past year, increased regulatory pressure in multiple regions like UK OFCOM and Australia's eSafety has led to higher operational costs, including infrastructure, security, and the need to work with more specialized service providers to keep the site online and stable.

    If you value the community and would like to help support its continued operation, donations are greatly appreciated. If you wish to donate via Bank Transfer or other options, please open a ticket.

    Donate via cryptocurrency:

    Bitcoin (BTC):
    Ethereum (ETH):
    Monero (XMR):
Sylveon

Sylveon

Mage
Oct 10, 2023
527
I've only ever heard of girls cutting on their upper thighs but never guys (whom I've only heard about cutting their wrists), but personally, I never managed to gather enough courage to cut deep in my wrists (nor did the idea of wrist cutting ever cross my mind when I started SHing), so I only do my mid to upper thighs and sometimes stomach when I feel really bad about myself. Is it weird? (Be completely honest, please.)
 
Last edited:
  • Hugs
Reactions: edu0z
edu0z

edu0z

carried away by a moonlight shadow
Aug 25, 2021
552
I've only ever heard of girls cutting on their upper thighs but never guys (whom I've only heard about wrist cutting), but personally, I never managed to gather enough courage to cut deep in my wrists (nor did the idea of wrist cutting ever cross my mind when I started SHing), so I only do my mid to upper thighs and sometimes stomach when I feel really bad about myself. Is it weird? (Be completely honest, please.)
the idea of SH is wierd in itself (if you ask a normal person who has never thought about doing it)... so I don't think it matters much where you do it, I think you don't do it for something aesthetic (I mean there are people who scars are made for aesthetic reasons so I don't know), if you do it because it relieves you and helps you calm down then I don't understand what the problem is with you doing it wherever you want.
 
  • Like
  • Love
Reactions: passivethought121 and Sylveon
deathstruck

deathstruck

failure personified
Dec 16, 2023
9
Hey, I'm a girl and I don't think it's weird at all. If you ask people apart from us (those who don't sh), cutting is weird in itself. In particular, I don't think cutting on thighs or anywhere else should be gendered lol...I myself have scars everywhere. Anyway, I hope you're okay (a very cliche thing to say but I mean it).
 
  • Love
Reactions: Sylveon and edu0z

Similar threads

Mr.Gimmick
Replies
0
Views
131
Suicide Discussion
Mr.Gimmick
Mr.Gimmick
thermosgrenadine
Replies
3
Views
211
Offtopic
ThatStateOfMind
T
ElTopo
Replies
1
Views
101
Offtopic
Pluto
Pluto
N
Replies
2
Views
169
Offtopic
noname223
N
frommetoyou
Replies
2
Views
193
Offtopic
Forever Sleep
F