I want a death coach

[lululoo]

I wish there were death coaches like there are (bogus) life coaches. The closest thing that exists (in the US at least) is Final Exit Guides, but they will only help people with medical conditions they deem legitimate and whose families are on board with the suicide or who have no family, and they only really give advice about the exit bag method, so whatever....

I'm sick of dealing with this all alone, while sick and depressed. I just want someone to tell me when to do it and assure me my plan will work, and make sure it works.

I will be so proud of myself in my final moments if I can actually get this done. I am so inept and unaccomplished. This will be my biggest accomplishment.

 

[Bulletwbttrflywings]

I wish there were death coaches like there are (bogus) life coaches. The closest thing that exists (in the US at least) is Final Exit Guides, but they will only help people with medical conditions they deem legitimate and whose families are on board with the suicide or who have no family, and they only really give advice about the exit bag method, so whatever....

I'm sick of dealing with this all alone, while sick and depressed. I just want someone to tell me when to do it and assure me my plan will work, and make sure it works.

I will be so proud of myself in my final moments if I can actually get this done. I am so inept and unaccomplished. This will be my biggest accomplishment.

They're out there, but undercover since it's against the law...

 

[lululoo]

They're out there, but undercover since it's against the law...

Really? Interesting. Well I don't think I'll try to hunt one down, I'd be too paranoid to trust them anyway.

 

[Egddios]

I've heard of "death doulas", they're mainly there for people when they're passing away, and stay with them, try and make the person as comfortable as possible as they pass. Of course, I don't think a death doula would be available for one ending their own life who wasn't terminally ill with a physical illness vs someone with mental illness, which is unfortunate.

 

[Extremly kind <3]

They're out there, but undercover since it's against the law...

To hell with the law If it is injustice, the law is manipulated against the ppls will, how moral and legal to force someone suffer living againest her/his well !!!

 

[Bulletwbttrflywings]

Really? Interesting. Well I don't think I'll try to hunt one down, I'd be too paranoid to trust them anyway.

I feel like I'd be a good one if it didn't mean I had to spend the rest of my life in jail

To hell with the law If it is injustice, the law is manipulated against the ppls will, how moral and legal to force someone suffer living againest her/his well !!!

Agreed

 

[GeorgeJL]

Well as far as I know it's OK to be a coach in that we don't encourage we just advise. And if that is what you want I can do that for you. I know all the peaceful methods and how to do them. PM me if you want.

 

[Extremly kind <3]

Well as far as I know it's OK to be a coach in that we don't encourage we just advise. And if that is what you want I can do that for you. I know all the peaceful methods and how to do them. PM me if you want.

What is the most peaceful, effective method other than N, SN & hanging, hanging is not peaceful at all, it will shock the ppl who finds u, there isn't a way to die while sleeping...?

 

[Bulletwbttrflywings]

What is the most peaceful, effective method other than N, SN & hanging, hanging is not peaceful at all, it will shock the ppl who finds u, there isn't a way to die while sleeping...?

Honestly, there is no way to not shock people who find us if/when we CTB... I think that's a lot of concerns we all have

 

[Extremly kind <3]

Honestly, there is no way to not shock people who find us if/when we CTB... I think that's a lot of concerns we all have

I know but if u found dead while asleep it is better than being found hanging, the impact is less, dont u think so...?

 

[Bulletwbttrflywings]

I know but if u found dead while asleep it is better than being found hanging, the impact is less, dont u think so...?

Absolutely @Extremly kind <3 - however I feel that no matter how hard we try to cover a SN or other method, the truth always comes to light if the loved ones press hard enough.

It's difficult to explain the untimely death of a 37 year old in their sleep than that one of an age over 65... thus resulting in an autopsy. I don't want my kids knowing. Or finding my body in that manner.

But I could be wrong. Autopsy can be expensive, but the final answer may bring closure to them. I'm not sure.

Just know I'm here to gain all the information I can before I do make a final decision. Everyone has different circumstances, I know mine, but they may be different than anyone else's

 

[GeorgeJL]

What is the most peaceful, effective method other than N, SN & hanging, hanging is not peaceful at all, it will shock the ppl who finds u, there isn't a way to die while sleeping...?

What is your budget, and how smart are you?

 

[ExitTheDay]

Fully on board with this idea