I haven't seen my friend in a few weeks. Have you seen him?

[dustyfurcollector]

There is a young man I found here. He was pretty active for awhile. I don't remember his user name. I remember his first name and I don't know if I can post it here.

Anyway, we chatted via Google chat for a couple years and I thought we'd gotten on well. I felt like we were getting close (not romantically... I'm too old and uninterested in that).

He was from Africa. A seaside town, he said. He had a girlfriend in Thailand. He had a physical symptom that made him very anxious that he would never find love.

He has gone missing from me. He had been very depressed and had asked me to mail him my sn. We discussed that that wasn't a good option. He told me he was feeling better. He's just gone. No word. No yelling. No disappointment mentioned.

Just gone.

Does anyone know how to find him here? I'm hoping he's just gotten mad at me and not left without saying goodbye.

 

[Halfhourdays]

With the search function, you can find his posts.

 

[dustyfurcollector]

With the search function, you can find his posts.

I wish I knew some of his posts. Thank you for the suggestion. I was really down and wondering why I was even here and he immediately reached out. I don't even know the things he said other than getting a software development classes scholarship. Maybe I can search that way? What key words would you use? Thanks for any help you can offer

 

[Goodfornothingbish]

If you remember a post that mentioned anything about Thailand and Africa together maybe search them up. Im sure not a lot of post would talk about a gf from Thailand and being from Africa on top of that. I assume that where he lives.

But if that doesn't work maybe just that:

software development classes scholarship.

Maybe if you could get even more specific with a time period to when he would have posted specifically about a scholarship, you could narrow it down that way too.

 

[dustyfurcollector]

That's great! Thanks! I will have to go to my chats to check a date. I honestly have no real idea how long we've talked. It feels forever.

 

[rozeske]

It can be hard to find if you don't remember a username or any posts or titles. You mentioned that he reached out to you here? If it's pm the message might still be there but could also have been wiped with the site data thingie a while back...

 

[dustyfurcollector]

It can be hard to find if you don't remember a username or any posts or titles. You mentioned that he reached out to you here? If it's pm the message might still be there but could also have been wiped with the site data thingie a while back...

Tbqh, I've been off the site since he and I started talking. I don't know about this data thing. I went back through our Google chats and I've tried counting the Octobers to determine how long ago it was and I'm thinking 2023? Maybe 2022? It doesn't tell me the year, that I can determine in my old ladyhood.

Thank you for your help. I really appreciate it.

 

[rozeske]

Or has he reacted to your posts if you remember or commented on a thread of yours if you made one?

 

[dustyfurcollector]

It can be hard to find if you don't remember a username or any posts or titles. You mentioned that he reached out to you here? If it's pm the message might still be there but could also have been wiped with the site data thingie a while back...

Thank you so much for your help! I was able to find some posts of his and was able to send a message to the account. Thank you again

Or has he reacted to your posts if you remember or commented on a thread of yours if you made one?

Thanks to all the help from all the commenters I was able to find his account and sent a message. Thank you for your help. Deeply.

 

[rozeske]

Thank you so much for your help! I was able to find some posts of his and was able to send a message to the account. Thank you again

Thanks to all the help from all the commenters I was able to find his account and sent a message. Thank you for your help. Deeply.

N.p. glad to hear that! I hope your friend is alright.