How to say goodbye

[BenzoBoii]

I'm at a loss with my family who cares for me, I don't want to make this harder from them than it has to be . I told them I may go out of country for medical care since I can't receive it in this country .I feel it would be easier to hear that I disappeared than the truth, any siggsuggest?

 

[Sickman75]

If you got medical care would that prolong your life for a bit more?

I'm at a loss with my family who cares for me, I don't want to make this harder from them than it has to be . I told them I may go out of country for medical care since I can't receive it in this country .I feel it would be easier to hear that I disappeared than the truth, any siggsuggest?

 

[21Neberg]

If you killed yourself out in the woods or some other far-out place, your body might not be found. However, not knowing whether or not you're alive might make your family feel even worse than if they simply know you're dead.

 

[VoloFataliDoce]

I truly believe that people will find more closure (and at the end of the day more comfort) in knowing what has happened than being left to wonder. If they know you're dead, they can begin to move on. If they aren't certain, they will always have a hope that you'll come back, which isn't healthy long term.

That's just my opinion, of course.

 

[BenzoBoii]

If you got medical care would that prolong your life for a bit more?

It would, but the catch is it is a significantly lower quality of life and something I don't want. I just want to rest .I'm just so tired. I've already been dropping hints that I may go to a different country for medical care

 

[BenzoBoii]

If you killed yourself out in the woods or some other far-out place, your body might not be found. However, not knowing whether or not you're alive might make your family feel even worse than if they simply know you're dead.

I told them I have years of jail time in the other country I had told them about, so it won't be a surprise if they don't see me for decades if I so tell them

 

[BenzoBoii]

I truly believe that people will find more closure (and at the end of the day more comfort) in knowing what has happened than being left to wonder. If they know you're dead, they can begin to move on. If they aren't certain, they will always have a hope that you'll come back, which isn't healthy long term.

That's just my opinion, of course.

I hadn't seen it in this light, thank you. I feel I should reconsider another method