How to make them feel its not their fault

[Donewith_]

when something unwanted happens, some people examine themselves..' where did i do it wrong'.. even though its not in their power to avoid it, or they are not at all connected to it. when i leave, i don't want my family or anyone to think the same .
I had some great time with my family and some unwanted times.. I mean.. I am born into a dysfunctional family. when i was a kid, i used to see my father once in a while.. he started to live with us after i turned 10. Till then, my mother raised me and my brother as a single working mother. I cant make anything happen. i can't mend any thing now.. all i wanted to know is..
When I leave, i don't want my mother, father , brother or anyone to think any of their actions has lead to my decision. what should i do to make it happen? i am not going to talk to them about this and not leaving a note. I need some advice. Thanks

 

[MistakesHappen]

Hi friend, i'm not enough lucid to help you, but Johnnythefox shared an article which talks about this. Definitely worth a read, trust me.
https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/suicide-note.11501/
I hope it helps you, wish the best.