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ceilng_tile

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Jan 13, 2024
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I was fired from my dream job last year and am now in an in-between job which is somewhat relevant to the field but not a long term thing. (My contract ends next summer.) I am determined to get back into the same line of work as my dream job but it's a really competitive field and I've already been fired once so most people would agree it's impossible to get back in.

I am looking at applying for another in-between job that is more relevant to my chosen field than what I am currently doing as a bridge to the job I really want. The problem is that I would need a recommendation letter from the boss who previously fired me and she isn't answering my emails. (The last one was sent yesterday so I have to give her a few days before I try texting or contacting other coworkers to find out what's going on.)

Over the last year, there were a couple of other times I tried to contact her or someone else at my last job to ask a question and didn't get a response, so I suspect they have completely cut off contact with me. But this time I don't have the option of just shrugging it off. I NEED this letter in order to get the job I want. And the frustration of not hearing back is making me depressed and making it hard to focus on work. I don't know what to do. The only reason I'm still alive is because of the small hope of finding a way to get back into my previous line of work. (I'm not going to settle for any future other than this one.) But without a letter from my last boss, all the work I'm doing at my current job is for nothing.
 
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enjoytheride

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Jun 29, 2025
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So sorry for this situation. I can totally understand why you are worried and how the prospect of getting back to a job you dream of can be your light at the end of the tunnel, giving meaning to your life.

On the practical side, have you considered going to the company in person and explaining why the recommendation letter is so important to you? This way they can't just ignore that you are there. And as long as you are polite and articulate, they will hardly be in a position to decline writing the letter for you.

I know that in an ideal world they would have sent it by e-mail already, but unfortunately, in the world we live in people don't care nearly a tenth as much as we would like them to.
 
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ceilng_tile

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Jan 13, 2024
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So sorry for this situation. I can totally understand why you are worried and how the prospect of getting back to a job you dream of can be your light at the end of the tunnel, giving meaning to your life.

On the practical side, have you considered going to the company in person and explaining why the recommendation letter is so important to you? This way they can't just ignore that you are there. And as long as you are polite and articulate, they will hardly be in a position to decline writing the letter for you.

I know that in an ideal world they would have sent it by e-mail already, but unfortunately, in the world we live in people don't care nearly a tenth as much as we would like them to.
She responded! I feel like a huge weight has been lifted.
 
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enjoytheride

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Jun 29, 2025
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Great news! I hope everything works out for you! :hug:
 
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