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SuicideKurt

SuicideKurt

A grain of life in the nonexistence
May 19, 2025
53
I have a girlfriend. Polyamorous. I need to cut her off or in other scenario she will have to read my suicide note. How can I do this with minimal pain for her, considering that she is on medication and is quite unstable? Of course she has friends who will support her, but ideally I need to find a replacement for myself. Ideas?
 
ppbb

ppbb

picture that. in your dreams.
Aug 24, 2025
6
i don't think it's your responsibility to find a replacement. as for breaking up, you could try the classic "become such a bad partner that she has no other choice but to cut you off", or ghosting. but i feel like just telling her would be less difficult emotionally, especially over time

either way i wish you luck
 
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Upon a hanging Body

Upon a hanging Body

Angel of Death
Jan 5, 2025
866
Instead of beating around the bush just tell your partner straight up that you want to break up.
It's not your responsibility to take care of them after , even if their mental health isn't great.

If you still do happen to care then keep them around as a friend .
 

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